Megan Kaye
19 years ago
Okay, I thought at my age (19) guys could no longer confuse me....but I'm totally wrong. There's this guy, and we have a history....we both lost our virginity to each other and I really liked him at the time....well nothing else happened, and I didn't talk to him for a year...but now I am. And I really like him again. He's been telling me that he's liked me a lot this past year, but he hasn't had a good year and he didn't know what to do about me. Well he was a jerk to me after we had had sex, so at first I didn't know whether to believe him or not...but now I kind of do, and I don't think that's wrong...but he won't talk to me at all about his life...why it was so bad, I want to try and help him, but I don't know how....How do I make him see that I care about him a lot and that I want him to share his problems with me so I can try and help him, without pushing him away? |
Bret Higgins
19 years ago
You tell him you'll be there for him as and when he's ready to tell you, regardless of how long it takes. |
Megan Kaye
19 years ago
The thing is, before we had sex we weren't really friends, we've never been friends...I don't know how to just be his friend |
Bret Higgins
19 years ago
Remove that aspect of your relationship and start from the beginning with the basics. |
Hayley Marie
19 years ago
hey, i know im really young... but dont be easy.. i dont know if you know what i mean, but dont let him take control of you, im sure your a strong woman. Dont fall into a mans trap (not being sexist, females do it too). |