what do you hate most about yourself?

...or for the more optimistic of us, what's your least favorite character trait?

mine? umm...probably the fact that i'm so indecisive. people get mad at me for taking too long to make important decisions. they also get mad when i accidently say one thing and i really mean the opposite, (but that doesn't happen often.) it's not as stupid as it sounds, but it's still bad enough. i hate myself for that; i try to be better, but i can't help it.

i wouldnt make one of these post cuz i can tell it will turn bad but thats my opionin so ya.........

I hate the fact that I am so distant. I don't talk to a lot of people. There have been so many times when I wanted to and should have said something, but didn't and ended up miserable for it... I am my own worst enemy.

what do you hate most about yourself?

nothing... i love everything about myself.. =) hate is such an u9ly word for me.. also, "hate" doesn't exist in my dictionary! =)

But you just said "hate" three times...

I hate the fact that I'm so dependant on other people. It's crazy.

I hate the fact that I hate it when people don't like me.

Yeah it's horrible isn't it Trina.

Seriously, I can't do anything for myself, I feel safe when I have someone around me. I hate it, honestly.

I just wanna be independant.

That's funny Crimson. I hate sleeping alone. Me and my raggedy ass finace have unfortunately split up and last night was the first night I've slept alone in a long time! I felt so weird. Like I wasn't safe. I hate that about myself too.

*gives Nat a hug*

Awwww

*gives jordan a hug too*

the reason i made this post is because i have a long history of self-hate. whenever i was asked what i hated about myself i would say "everything." but when you stop and try to pin point the things you dislike most, that's a good step toward correcting the issues one at a time. things are usually a lot more clear from the viewpoint of someone looking from the outside in, so telling to others your self-conscious issues to others is a good way to work towards taking control of them.

Aww, Nat I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope you're Ok.

And Mlkdipdcookie ©, nice idea!

i don't really hate anything about me
but i do dislike the fact that i'm really
sensitive. i qet hurt easily. =(

That's kinda sad that you hate everything about yourself ...
:-(

Well if you ever wanna talk ... I'm a good listener.

I'm always around to help someone in need. :-D

I hate how I always fall for the wrong guys! I've only been in love twice.
The 1st time was over a guy who was 2years older than me. He was a bit of a player, never really wanted me. He just lead me along and played with my heart and I loved him for 2 whole years.
My 2nd one, is a married man. He was 20years older than me, married and has kids! How stupid can I get!

physically- my stomach

mentally- i let the little things bother me and im so scared to trust

Bleedingangel- i know how it feels, im like that too

i hate about my self that i am tall , and i am just to good for those people that never appreciate it ,but i just keep on helping those again and again .hate it ,then when i need help i see no one who whould help me out and give a hand

I hate my voice...It always gets in the way and gives the superficial people more reasons to insult me. (it's kind of like franny's voice from The Nanny) Plus, i think it annoys people and makes me REALLY self-conscious...(sp?)

I hate everything about me.

I hate the fact that care about everyone too much because i end up getting walked all over and people just use me as a door mat...this includes letting my emotions get the best of me....i cry over the most silliest thing....it's horrible

hmmm

I hate the fact that I can't trust people. I close myself off to everyone around me and it takes months for me to be able to carry on a deep conversation with someone and tell them my secrets/fears or whatever.

Everything. Apart from my hand in art.

everything

acctually i dont hate anything.....not how it was a month ago...but god made me the way he wanted me to so i shouldnt hate gods work

I hate a lot about myself.

Everything about my appearance except my eyes and my hair on a good day.

I hate how I trust people too easy, I believe they wouldn't ever hurt me, which is a silly thing to believe...I hate how I fall in love so easy and make promises that always end up falling apart anyways...such as I promise to go visit someone, but then that friendship ends up falling apart so it's kinda like a broken promise that I can't fix. I hate that my mood changes and that I get sad a lot and can't fix it...I hate that I'm too flirty and clingy...I hate not having someone to hug and hold...and even kiss sometimes...I hate that I lose my temper easily, and I can't defend myself well...I hate that everyone around here hates me =(...and a million more things but I'll stop now...

I feel exactly the same ^^^ you're not alone on that 1.

Ok maybe not exactly, but pretty much.

Why do people always say 'everything'. Seriously, there must be something about yourself that you like?

Mlkdipdcookie © This was a really good idea especially if in turn it is helping you. Although I must say in reading what others hate about themselves I found a few others that I hate about ME. But after thinking about it for a while I realized the things I hate are not BAD things. Like I really hate that I trust people so easily. That's not a bad thing though, that's something I can work on. I don't trust MEN easily, well men who are trying to be close to me. And if I don't trust them I don't let them in my bubble. That's a good thing though, in my eyes. I'm protecting myself and if a man can't deal with that then he wasn't for me anyway. See if you pinpoint it like you said and really get to the bottom of a lot of things you will find they aren't so bad. I trust my friends whole heartedly and I never doubt them or their frienship. It bit me in the ass a couple of times but those are things that make you better and stronger, you know.

Everything...

Sounds so...teenager, lol.

LMAO

thx nat, haha. reading all of these posts reminds me of how bad off i used to be. i'm in therapy now and one of the first things i was taught was how exaggerated thinking makes us feel worthless. when we're left to our own thoughts and opinions we can really tear ourselves down. for a lot of people depression is responsible for that. but things aren't usually as bad as we make them out to be. i thought about making a "what do like most about yourself" post. although i'm sure the list would be shorter, if we would really think about it, it would probably do us a lot more good.

Yes, I agree. That would be good. Had you thought of that before you could have combined the two. :) I don't think you'll get as many responses either. So many seem to simply say they hate EVERYTHING about themselves. I highly doubt that is actually the case but they do say you are your worst critic. I think if you think of the qualities you possess that you don't particularly like and dig deeper you can reason with them and see some aren't as bad as you may have thought. I think this was cool...because it actually made me think about a few things.

I tried for a few moments to pin point what i personally hate, and dislike to like and love about myself.

Each time i came to the conclusion that i hate myself, and the only thing i love about myself is the fact Tracie can love me as i am.

I feel, well...pathetic for that.

But, as many have said i am a councilors worst nightmare :p

Im a fatty :(

"Why do people always say 'everything'. Seriously, there must be something about yourself that you like"

I said everything. I'll try and get a few of the things I like.

1. My hand in art, like I said. Apparently some of my pieces are amazing, but sometimes I don't see that.
2. I think I kinda like my lips lol. They're all full, and I have a natural pout but they're not too big. Lol.
3. How easily I can make new friends with people that I'm introduced to. I automatically adapt to them.
4. My acting abilities, and writing abilities.

That's about it. I could have a whole massive list of things that I hate about myself but I better not. Wow this has taken me 10 minutes to write!

I hate my weight (and I'm not one of those people that is anorexic I'm overweight) I hate the way I always say the wrong thing and half the time not meaning it and I hate the way I can always make the worse out of a good situation.