Boyfriend Trouble

The words 'I love you' are certainly not ones to be bandied about in general conversation. Ease back, relax and deny those words for a few days. You'll know if they mean anything to you soon enough.

As for not wanting to hurt, him... tell him it's a test (which it is) to see how long you can go without saying it. Over the course of the next few days you'll probably get the urge to say it, because it will mean more to you.

It's probably a good idea to get him to do it too so it reduces any chances of awkwardness... plus it will give the words more meaning to him too.

My wife and I will sometimes say it a lot during a day, sometimes a few days will go by without it said once. The words themselves mean nothing really, it's the intent that comes from within that gives the phrase 'I love you' power.

Hope it helps,

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