What do you do when your boyfriend's past starts catching up tp

What do you do when your boyfriend's past starts catching up to your reality? For instance, my boyfriend has done something we all regreted, but I'm still not confidence enough to post that, anywho...the whole school knows about it and ask me why am I still with him. I severly like him, but I also tend to listen to others....what am I suppose to do?

Good advice Bob, but this is more serious then you might give it credits for, he was being open minded and slept with another guy whom goes to the same school, everyone is wondering why I'm with him, and I the same. He's not gay, or esle I wouldn't be with him, but the thought of everyone talking about him hurts me and my reputation.

He's obviously bi-sexual; which can have serious implications for your health (if he's not taking precautions). And also, you will always be thinking....

its awesome your understanding like that I mean I give you credit and if he regrets it then he regrets and if everyone is making him feel bad liek this I don't think it will help if you break up with him cause it will make him feel worst just talk to him about it cause he problay thinks your the only one who is there for him dont break the trust

Well there was alot to learn about my fiancee's past because alot of bad things happend to him, and because I love him so much I support him.And I was there for him no matter what he told me.Now if you feel the same way about your boyfriend then you'll listen, and understand.If you wanna talk email me back at armyfantic4u@yahoo.com

If it's in his past and he hasn't cheated on you I don't see what the big deal is.

So what if he has experimented? When girls experiment with each other it's considered cute and natural.

Rumour mongering is hocum.

As for your reputation... If he means anything at all to you, your repution would not be a consideration.

Couldn't have said it better myself, Bret.

I find this actually pathetic to read, the guy experimented? So what?

Bi-sexuality is hardly something to be afraid of, or worried of.

How can you really say you love him if you'd let something like that doubt your feelings?

I haven't said I love him, cause I don't believe in love. As for my reputation, you may be correct, let's not speak of that damn wretched thing....but how am I suppose to feel when people make it so obvious they think he's gay? And I being his girlfriend, feel uneasy.

Sounds easy enough to do, but it's not as simple as it seems. Don't you think I've tried ignoring those ignorant? Don't really work when you're surrounded by peers who knows what to say to irk you.

So what - he made a mistake: he's human.
And, tell whoever asks you about it- to go screw themselves. xD Honestly, it's none of their effin' business. And if they can't talk to you, unless they have some sort of gossip-y investigative work to do, then they aren't work talking to in the first place. And lastly, you can't always listen to everyone else. If you spend your whole life making everyone else happy, you'll be miserable yourself - and if you are, it's not worth doing at all. You have to do things for YOU sometimes...

I think Cody is right, I've been living up to everyone's expectations for as long as I can remember, and it's about damn time I stop....but the feeling that I've failed someone really bother my conscience, humph, being human isn't all that fun, always the emotions that stands in our ways....damn emotions!

Atomic something I learnt a long time ago was to stop trying to please everyone and worry about what they were thinking and saying. Fact is, you can never please everyone else and the best solution is to try and make yourself happy because your the one who has to sleep with that every night...

These are all good suggestions, and I love you guys for that, but saying things out loud doesn't mean you can do it better, I need more confidence and apparently more of everything....hmmm, I'm starting to sound self-fish. I think this all sums up to my mother, she always compare me to my younger sister, makes me feel like I need to become the person my mother wants me to become.....I know everyone can relate to this...the expectation of the mother and how displeasing she becomes when you once again fail your mission as her dreams achiever

I think If you love him stay with hima nd screw everyone else!!!

See, the thing is...I don't love him, or anyone esle as a matter of fact. But I do care for him more than I do for most...so it's a start, right?

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That is a start.

It was in his past, if he regrets it fair play (though i can't see why he would) but i really do find it stupid that anybody could have a problem with something like that.

Then again, englands always been a bit more accepting of such.

Kinda makes thing more complicated when the guy he slept with is in my Art classes, the school is small, everyone knows it....You can almost feel the room grow tense with us three in the same room...I just laugh it off, but my facade isn't fooling anyone.

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