What do you look for in a ......

what kind of things do you look for when you are trying to find a gf/bf ?

Unfortunately for me, it tends to be looks and figure. And I hate being this way. The reason being is that the ones with the looks and figure are usually up their own arses - or if they're not someone else is!

erm eyes and hair (colour and style) i know they are trivial things but i suppose they're the things that catch my eye...personality is what holds me there.
xxxLoUxxx

I will be honest I have to say looks are important as well as being in shape. A good sense of humor, educated, honesty, faithfulness, well rounded & most important must be good with children. My son comes first so if they can't except my child they don't have a chance. I did not list them in order of importance.

What really catches my eye is the eyes, smile, hair, body...But that is not what makes me love them...it only makes me attracted. What makes me love someone is their loyalty, sarcasim, not too nice or mean...you know. Their near-perfect personality.

Defentily a good conversation like you can joke around and have fun but still be serious and have trust and ya gotta have attraction and have them respect your will and just be accepting and charming at the right time =)

I found him, the perfect guy, and I can't just say it's one thing about him that i love, or i look for in him. It's everything about him that makes my head run wild, and my heart beat against my chest like thunder. It's everything he makes me fell that I love, everything that he is that I adore and am crazy for. I love you, Zac!

~Sierra

well i look for a good personality, and someone i can be myself around, so i don't act all shy to kiss him and what not, i care about looks but to a certain point. i dont' care what kind of car he drives or where he works, he doesn't have to give me any money, and most of all i dont really care for there back ground cause if there clean now thats all that matters and i know this thing i just explained goes out to the guy i love, and he knows who he is!

For dating, not too much. You both know it won't last.

But for love, look for/at EVERYTHING... If there's something you don't like about them, it'll eat away at you forever.

My mother always said to me "Marry the person you would change the least things about" She was right.

Physical attraction is a must, otherwise I wouldn't be looking in thier direction in the first place. Really, as much as we like to deny it, its crucial in relationships. I look for someone who's driven and ambitious, someone who strives to reach there goals. A person I can conversate with, someone who can one day become my best friend and has the potential to offer me stability and a lifestyle I have dreamed of achieving.

Lucky I found that special someone and five odd years and two beautiful children later I couldn't be happier. Though we have our differences like all partnerships do, I would have it any other way. He makes me a better person and brings out the best in me, he believes in me when I have no faith or hope remaining...how could I ever trade that for anything else in the world?

ok...what I look for in a guy is being sweet, nice, caring...they will be there if I need them. Someone to hold me when I'm depressed and tell me they are there for me no matter what happens. Intelligent ( Even if my last b/f didn't know what a hobby was!) haha but I used to love him anyways! I don't care too much for the looks. I met him through one of my friends and we mostly talked on the phone and the computer. He was sweet and i don't care if he was "in shape" or not. He weighed 196lbs and he was only 5'9" so as you can tell...but he just expected to much from me. He always pressured me into having sex but I never gave in! I will never go after a guy like that again!

Someone who cares..
Who can tell people that "HEY I'M DATING HER!" "sweet man"
Someone who calls out of the blue!
Someone who just wants to be with you.
No suspicions.. nothing.

A sweet guy, looks really dont matter to me, his sence of humor has to good. I love guys that can make me smile or laugh. (i usually go for blondes though...it just works out that way I guess)

i look for what eye color they have and humor. i love guys that are funny, they also have to be trusting. i usually go for the guys with dark hair and eyes but for sum reason i have a bf with blonde hair and blue eyes...so yeah it must be the personailty.

Looks do matter with a guy because there has to be some physical attraction there but personality is also really important to me too. I love a sweet guy, with a streak of bad in him. I do like shy guys too, & who would stand up for me if somebody was bitching about me. I also like to feel appreciated by my guy because I think after such a long time of being with the same person they forget...certainly what my boyfriend does, but hes buying me shoes so im happy :-D