Confused...HELP

Well, it's a 3-step process.
° Decide what you want
° Make a plan to get it
° Act on it

How you do those things is all up to you - I can't tell you how you feel. Trust your heart, not you brain. :)

*Agree with Cody*

Well, the thing is, did you break up with ur ex or did he break up with you? If he broke up w/u then you know, try the other guy...I mean, he broke your heart once who says he doesn't have the power to do it again? BUT...If you broke up w/him then think why you did that...If you loved him you wouldn't have let him go like that! but thats just a personal opinion...you cant take it or leave it. Whatever...

okay harsh words here im afraid but i hope ull see them as constructive.......you and ur ex are never going to happen. like u sed its been almost a year when u broke up and he clearly cant see that u love him and even if he can hes choosing to ignore that. as for this other guy, dont get too worked up about how u shud feel and act and say. just stay calm and be urself and try not to catergorise (sp?) him into sumone u fancy or love etc....just see him as a guy ur guna see at church n let it build from there...so forget bout ur ex and enjoy life!
xxxLoUxxx