should i tell him how i feel?

  • Dominique
    19 years ago

    we talk everynight, and we do have a "history" its a long story, but i care for this guy so much im just afraid that if i reveal my heart he'll laugh in my face

    what should i do??

  • Cody
    19 years ago

    Well, it depends on how he feels about you.
    If you have a FOR SURE DEFINATE way of knowing he doesn't like you- like maybe you asked before, or kidded around, or he told your friend- whatever, but if you know he doesn't then you have a decision or 2 to make.
    You could..
    ° Tell him how you feel anyway...
    ° Realize that having him as a great friend is better than not having him as a b/f
    Or ° See that it's All or Nothing - b/f or no/f
    There's your options deary, I can't tell you how you feel. Trust you heart, not your brain. :)

  • InMyWorld
    19 years ago

    if you talk every night and you have a "history" i'm guessing he cares about you, and he shouldnt laugh in your face if you tell him how you feel.

    before you tell him though, try flirting a bit and see how he responds (nothing drastic, just a little bit)

    maybe bring it up jokingly? i dont know the relationship but when i wanna know something from my best guy friend i ask it as a joke and see how he answers.

    good luck, hope i helped :)

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    no matter whether he has feelings for u or not, as a friend hes not guna laugh in ur face cos thats not what friends do....yea like most people said try n get to know his feelings first but ultimatly ask him...its better to know the answer rather than spend a lifetime guessing and looking at the whole what if's?
    its better to live to regret, than to regret to live

    xxxLoUxxx

  • Elise
    19 years ago

    ah...you remind me of...myself.
    yeah, I just kinda got out of a story like that...I just never told him and he...went away and now he has a chik. I hate myself for it.
    So don't wait. Tell him.
    For you...For him...