I think I'm going crazzy!! someone tell me what to do!

There is this guy that lives next door...im 14 and he's 17...HE IS SOOOOOOOOOOO OBSESSED WITH ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's freaky...he comes out of his house when he knows I'm out and stares at me and "smiles"...and the only reason he knows I'm out is because he always sends his lil sis out looking to see if I am...Im gonna be a freshman and he's been like this every sinse I was in the 5th grade...He keeps getting sent off. They say for 11 months but he comes back 2 weeks later... What should I do??? SOMEONE HELP!!!

Smack in the the mouth... or kick him in the pins, but as a bloke it wouldn't really be right of me to put that one first, it's just not cricket.

Seriously, if you're not interested you have to make it painfully obvious that he's not the one and never will be. And I do mean painfully.

the thing is he has tried stuff with me and my dad has made it clear too...we live in this little town and every police knows me and thinks of me as their own daughter and I got him on molesting charges and charges for trying to slit my brothers neck! And He scares me!! He walks around at like 11:00 every night and just stops right in front of my house and stares at my window for like 45 min and then leaves...what now?

but seriously im really scared!! He's gone (for now) they got him today for sumthing...And now he wants to get emancipated!! OMG! HELP

I feel for you, I really do. The gloves are off and now I fully advocate full use of testicle abusive powers. A pointy shoe in the balls really isn't comfortable, I know whereof I speak.

Seriously though I'll just say it's wise not to go out alone I know that limits your freedoms a bit, but at the same time you'll be safer.

yea i agree with bret ...get tough! MAKE him know that its NEVER going to happen! and yea also dont be alone near him cos he doesnt sound safe!

yea my parents NEVER let me outside alone at night...even when it's 8:00 but it's cool When ever I do, I always have my phone with me! I still remember when he told all of his friends and some people I was close to that he went with me and we had sex ALL THE TIME and that he got me pregnant a couple of times too...He's a freak...As you can tell! I think it's funny cuz I'm still a virgin! haha

Reminds me of a story about this girl around four-teen whom was stalked by her forty-something neighbor....she got raped and killed, her grave was a safe-deposite box thrown in quick sand. They never found her body and the man lived a long and happy life.....hmmm, I think I'm making matters worse....ignore, ignore, ignore!

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WOW!!! Yeah thats a scary thought! Thanks for that!! haha but no, hopefully he will lose interest in me or something...I can only hope, Ya know??? But, when my friend was over at my house...We made fun of his bro and him we said he had wedgy phobia because he pulled his pants off his butt and said his brother was steve ercal because he pulled up his pants and pulled up his shirt and bent over!! haha it was funny and they tried coming over to where we were playing basketball at my hoop and we ran as fast as we could back inside my house and I remember one day he tried to break in my room!! But, my dad came out with a shot gun so it's all good! haha

Creepy....Do what I did. There was this guy, a year older then me. He'd talk about EHEM THINGS ABOUT ME that were wrong, then he'd annoy me to death. It's not like the comebacks he'd make were good, they were really stupid like, M.I.L.F. or your mom jokes. Once he threw my stuff out the bus window, then started pushing me around the bustop. I kicked his rip out of place. Maybe you don't need to be too violent....lol. Tell him to leave you only or even better, have your dad hiding in a bush;)
~Emmy

Agreed.

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this guy is a creep...thats obvious. have you told him to f**k off? lol that may seem harsh but i would honestly go over there and tell him mum. she'll most likely have a nut at him and he will hopefully stop, i mean his mum is going to be able to keep an eye on what hes doing!

omg soz!!! i didnt read the other things you put up, just read the 1st one!! wat a f**ken freak man. you should get a restriction order against him

yeah...but his mom can't even comtrol him only the police and they don't do a good job at it. In about 4 years, I'm moving out of Kentucky and far far away!!! Maybe where ever I end up will be better than down here stuck with him!!!

yes....move away.......move VERY far away......

this dude sounds PSYCHO

Prayin for Ya Hun

Peace.

Wear a bra around your head, wear your underwear on the outside of your trousers, carry a pair of shears on you at all times and change your name to Gary.

Lol, sorry. Can you not get a restraining order against him?

I want to but he's gone for now...And I think I scared him a little bit when he came back a few months ago b cuz b tween 5th-7th gade I was what ppl call "Normal"...Now, I wear a lot more black, Like nail polish clothes eyeliner ya know the works and he is a BIG POSER!!!!!!!!! It's funny and I thought that would get him to leave me alone but I guesstemated wrong huh?? lol my new name: Gary!!!

I think you can still get a restraining order against him. Just say he's gone for now, but you're scared about when he comes back so can yuo not get one in preparation. Lol na some people never give up.

I'm trying really hard to just freak him out but I should do what you said about putting my underwear on the outside of my pants...I'd be funny!! I was freaking out at the end of my 8th grade yr because I thught he was still in school ya knw? and I would of been going to the same school as him!! But, come to find out that he dropped out!! so sorry for him!!! any other suggestions on how to freak him out?? im open to them!! I might even do it! haha me and my best friend probably will haha!!!!!!!!!!!

but thx eveyone for your put ins!!