Off limits?

I like dis boy ALOT n he likes me back, but my best friend likes him too. She's already asked him out twice but he's said no. Me and the boy really like each other, and when my friend sees me flirting with him she goes crazy. Does this mean he's off limits?

hmmmmmmm very tricky indeed.....he is kinda yes...unless u can talk to ur mate and tell her how u both feel about each other and that her and him are neer guna happen (make sure u tread carefully there) ..u never know she might be happy for u if she knows its what u want...if not i personally wunt go for it cos guys arent worth loosing mates over!
xxxLoUxxx

Ta 4 ur help hunni, i spoke 2 her and she blew up in my face, should I just go for it anyway or just leave and hope our friendship will rebuild?

Thank you guys for your help, however I fancied the boy after my friend asked him out, is he therefore still off limits?

I have to agree with bloodytears...if she is one of ur mates and she liked this guy before u did then u should wait until shes moved on...because if u go out with this guy she'll feel really down, like ur proving to her you can get the guys she cant. I know thats not what ur doing but she'll see it that way...yup i know life is unfair...

If he asks you out in front of her I don't see what the problem would be... apart from bunny boiling jealousy of course.

hey iyea if HE asks YOU out then its not so bad cos its not as tho uve chased him which wud piss ur mate rite off...if she comes on to u then well tell her its not ur fault he has feelings for u too and hope taht she understands

hes definately off limits!!!!!!! im really sorry to say this but ive been there-done that except i was the mate getting turned down and it really really hurts and please dont go behind her back coz she will find out!!
FOB-Friends Over Boys

kk, i'll wait for her to get over him, thank-you all so much for your answers, my poem 'Jodie, Joel' is all about this situation as is my poem 'soz jodz', hopefully if you read these you'll understand the full situatuion. Thank-you all so much for your help. Just one last question, if my ex-boyfriend raped me, should I tell the poilce? I mean I love him, but he terrifyes me, please help, Lauren xxx

hmm.....well a friend SHOULD be happy for you right?

And look he's rejected her TWICE!!!

Claim him and he's OFF LIMITS.

I'm not telling you to actually DO that i'm just saying that would make it official.

Good Luck Sweetie

Peace....

Thank-you guys, you're all so sweet! but what should I do about the rape problem???? Please at the moment thats the thing that is really racking my brain!

The rape thing tell the police. Don't let him get away with it..

this guy is a ass! yea u may have feelings for him but he broke the law.dont let him get away with it...think o the pain it caused u and prevent this from happenin to other gals cos he mite do the same thing again if he knows he can!
so go to the police and tell them everything cos this guy deserves nothin!
xxxLoUxxx

If u loved a boy, and proper loved him, and he raped you but apoligised hundereds of times promising never to do it again, would you tell the police, and I mean if you really loved him? He says he'll never do it again...

throw his ass in jail

then tell me which jail you put him in

and i'll be there in 5 minutes........while you're waiting drop him in a cauldron of boiling water and i'll be there bringing the cannibals.......