what do u do?

what do u do when u r in love w/ someone but u dont know if they love u back?

Ask them.

same ^

get to know them better and better n gradually work ur way into their lives. then ull see them for their true colours n vice versa and feelings are more likly to happened...then ask them!

amber.. i have the same issue. lol i guess with my case.. we're actually arguing a lot right now and he tells me he loves me.. but i dont really know for sure bc i dont feel the emotion when he says it.. so i keep thinkin he's just saying it for the sake of saying something. but you know.. just ask him. if you have to .. argue about it and make up later. just dont do the extreme arguing lol. i guess if he really is in love with you, he'll tell you. if he's not, he's gonna say something close to it but kinda hinting that he's not there.

woah! i know what you mean.. look at my post (serious help needed) and you'll see.. but what i have learned.. is that you need to get to know them better, just lilke what these other people are sayin!!! actually... i'm not the greatest person for advice!! man, i have no clue.. someone needs to help me with that too!! :'( . lol