Only For Those Abstaining..* but u can see it even if u ate the

sounds more like a pornographic letter :-\

i kinda see what ur gettin at...u wana to fill all her desires as u feel u should but because u love her so dearly u want to stay pure for each other?!

i personally think that this is a really nice way of lookin at it but id just rather have sex lol...dont get me wrong, im not sum gal that shags about, i always waited till i found the rite guy who i loved to loose my virginity to. but my opinion is that if u share that part of a rship together, i duno how to expain it but u creat a special bond that cant b broken even after the heart and rship is....but im glad u stand by what u believe in and try and let ur gf know the reasons behind it!
take care

xxxLoUxxx

well its true..i am pornographic, well if the tempation is unbearable just be like : im horny...and if she laughs..make a joke out of it..thats what i usually do..but if she raises an eyebrow..than your in business my friend.

hey there again......it wont make ur marraige any less specail at all....ur marriage is bout sharin ur life with sumone adn if u can deepen that rship before then y not?....u love her and she loves u and if u want to deepen ur rship then i see no probs and i know temptation is unbearable at times SO give in hehehe both be sure u want to do it tho!

i dont think about sex all the time..im a writer..i think about keeping myself from going insane. I think, my friend, that you are afraid of being shot down...vow or no vow..what happens if you marry her and the sex is no good..no matter how much you love her...shes gonna kick your ass to the curb..lol

Killawolf4ya: o my fucking god you use gat a lot and everytime I see that I get paranoid. can't you use got?

hehehe not to rain on ur parade but alot o ppl are so diappointed on their first time as well itll prob hurt her and u both not got clue what to do...so imagine spending years buildin it up and then for what..ud feel let down to certain extent. i think u shud do what feels natural! listen to ur body an hearts not ur head...heheh im not a nypho btw ...im in lng distance tis impossible to be one! lol
xxxLoUxxx

y wont it be that hot?u sed it urself sometimes its unbareable not to!
and also marriage isnt a forever thing anymore ufortunatly. its just as easily got out of as it is got into! its up to u what happens i respect ur views and the ultimate respect for not giving in...i just think that perhaps the reason behind ur adstaining have faded in society over the years (aka marriage not what it meant, ppl loosin virginity younger etc!)

xxxLoUxxx

gud on yas! just do what u feels right and dont have any regrets whatever u choose cos look at it this way.............u did whatu thought was right at the time of the action.......
take care
xxxLoUxxx

sweet, but in a way... hypocritical... because u want to be sexually pure but at the same time ur saying that u still wanna mess around... try defing what sexual purity boundaries u have, and why u have them.. *KISSES*~Corrie

i get what your trying to say and i think thats a right thing to do, and if she doesn't like the fact that you don't want to have sex (because you love her so much but you want to keep a pure sexual w/e thing) then she can either deal with it or move on?!?!?! or you guys can just do it!! lol! srry i didn't really help you out on this so srry!!!!