Am I A $lut?? plz read

Alex.. wow girl thats crazy You r very brave to go online! you know how dangerous that is.. I am 15 and i have slept with 3 guys! I may seem like a slut but wow u make me look like a grannie hun. You should def. get tested n go to a doc. because thnk about it you could be inffecting other people! If you dont know and they have unprotected sex there is a HUGE chance of them b eing infected to.. so if u are infected with anything its only rite that u tell them also! Hun 31 is very old for you... thats very dangerous. I would try to get some help or just stop sleeping with so many people.

Honey have emailed you and I have to say my personal opinion is who am I to judge. I'm worried that you are dealing with this alone and would urge you to speak to someone who can actually help you (someone close by and responsible). So many questions spring to mind. The biggest being why? Why do you use sex? I feel a lot of confusion around this post and I hope that you email me back so we can talk some more. Take care honey and try to remember that your body is something you have to live with for the rest of your life, please try to keep it safer than you are because it has to last you a long time. Love Rach xx

i am also 15 but i have done somethings but not as much as you have i wont write what i have done but you did go a litle out of control i dont think you have messed up your life you can always change who you are if you want to what you have done in the past is where it should stay i have been called every name in the book i mean i have been called a n lover and god i hate the word cause of my boyfriend i have been called s!ut, ho3, sk@nk you name it i have been called it even if it hurts to hear you you need to brush it off

you need to go to the doctor or talk to an adult that you really trust and tell them what is going on i hope that you will stop what you are doing before you really mess up your life and have a kid and not know who the dad is

if you need to talk some more i am here for you i hate to see some one call them or think of themsleves as that so if i can help you let me know okay

GothicSugar

Please everyone out there maybe try to understand that everybody copes with things in their lives in different ways. Ok she asked if you thought she was a slut so that gave you the go ahead to answer that question. Try to understand that this girl needs help and support rather than persecution. If she were my daughter I would want to help her feel better about herself and realise that sex isn't something to be used as a defence mechanism or to be liked but it's something that should be almost special between two consenting adults male or female. People make mistakes. I know I've made a million so far and am planning on learning from a further million in my lifetime xx

I agree answer her honestly but she doesn't need to be judged or told that she's bad. It's my opinion (and only mine) that people like her need to be helped, supported and shown love and acceptance not just told how bd they are. Surely by having a go as some posts did all that will happen is that her self worth will diminish more than it already has. To me it seems she's already using sex as a barrier in two ways (in my humble opinion), firstly to gain acceptance and secondly to avoid closeness, then she needs help not damnation. By all means answer her questions because that's what she asked for but ask yourself how you would feel if this was your daughter/sister/mum? You would want to help and make this better for her and that was my point. I try to keep any advice to a positive on here because I'm aware how fragile people really are. Speaking as someone who was once as fragile as anything I know how cutting people's often flippant and not intentionally hurtful remarks can be. I think this girl needs love and care. I think she needs someone who is a responsible adult to teach her how to value herself and her body. To me that sad thing in all of this is that if she were a guy not as many people would have commented! I wish you all peace and happiness in your lives. Love Rach xx

All I have to say is that everyone copes differantly, as stated above. I have always battled depression, but I never turned to cutting. In my opinion, I think it is disgusting. Who knows why she did it, maybe she doesn't. I could see it as a cry for attention though. I agree with the help concept though, it isn't healthy, and she should stop.

Taylor, I agree and disagree with you, most of the time when people act like that it is annoying, but she came here for help, not to be yelled at.

ok, She's had enough answers. If anyone else wants to contact her with helpful advice, then go send her a private message.

I am locking this now and if anymore threads are made about it, I will delete them.