So confused.......... :-(

Ok, this is going to sound kinda stupid, but i'm gonna go for it anyway. i've gotta get it off my chest.

I have this "friend" Karen. She's making my life pure hell. Pushing and shoving me around, teating me like a bit of dirt basicly.

Then there's paulene. Shes another friend. She's alot older than me (33) but she and i still get on on really well. But we had a big bust up last night over Karen. cos she doesn't like the way karen treats me. i can see her point. i really can. But the thing is, cos i'm in collage and paulene's working, i'm stuck with karen. and its almost like with out karen i have nothing. but if stick with her i'll end up loosing both of them. does that make sense?

I know its long winded, but i just have to get it off my chest. i'm so confused.....

I think you should just slowly move away from Karen. You don't want to lose both of them, but you can't stay with Karen either, letting someone push you around is not something you need. I'd say just move away from Karen and try and make some new friends, that can be hard but i think it might be the best thing for you because if she's making your life hell, why stick with her?
I dunno, just trying making new friends. Not very good advice but hey, I tried. Good Luck.

I know how that 1 feels, and you have to decide for yourself; do you want to be left with nothing for a while until you find new friends and be happy, or do you want to be pushed around and be unhappy?

You could also try talking to Karen and saying to her "Look, stop acting as thouh you are the boss of me! You don't have the right to push me around" Etc.

thats kinda how i went you know. dont worry! just... that happened to me. i had to go a week to camp with a person who called me her friend.. .her name was Anna. i hate her so bad cause she messed up my year. just can you get a diff friend???!

Tell Karen to F*c* off and make a new friend you don't deserve to be treated like that!! Then you win both ways becuz you don't value your friendship with Karen so loose it! *good luck*
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Thanks guys!!
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