** JEALOUSY **

I trust my boyfriend. But I cant help getting jealous of this girl he hangs out with at summer school. She called him almost everyday last summer and he said he liked her last year, but not anymore. She kind of looks like me, has my blonde hair and braces. He invited her to his game when I went to it. He said he wanted her to see who was better at playing, him or his friend Josh. I get jealous easily though and I dont know why. I need help though. Please.

I wouldn't go for it. If she is HIS friend she can be YOUR friend as well. I wouldn't have that shit unless it was a "group" friendship. It's natural for girls to be jealous of other girls...that's how we are. He should understand and respect you enough to bring her around you. They can hang out with you too. You stand up for what will make YOU more comfortable. If he doesn't agree to it then obviously something else is up.

Thanks guys. Your really helping me. And I totally agree with what your saying. I shouldnt have that. I should hang out with them, not without them. I trust him. But I dont trust her. Thanks again guys!

Yeah he tells me that they hang out and stuff.

lol yeah they are

Hey, I had the same problem...my boyfriend is really close to this girl & the first time I met her she jumped on him and gave him this huge hug...instantly made me jealous and for such a long time I really didn't like her. He always thought it was because I didn't trust him but I did and do its just hes a real hottie and I get so paranoid still that girls are gonna see him how I see him and then hes gonna get interested in them etc etc...see I have bad paranoia!!! No matter how many times he reassures me hes not gonna leave me for anybody else I still get paranoid sometimes. The thing I did to get over the jealousy was to tell him but I also told her about my feelings. Once she knew I was able to start over with her and no jealousy at all...I still do get paranoid over him but I instantly think positive thoughts...it does help. xxx (& sorry for the long post!)

No, its ok, I like the really long posts, its helps me out more. lol. thanks. Ill talk to him about it, maybe it will help me too but im xtremely paranoid, just like you said you were lol! thanks so much for the help!

Well just remember that he is with you and not her and let hi now that it bothers you how close they are! *Good luck* =D

i have the same problem except they don't hang out but when ever my bf goes to the race track (he races motorcross bikes) she's always there. and i'm in florida right now and he's in michigan were he lives and he goes every week but how am i supposed to trust him that he isn't doing stuff and you know girls do like to know were there bf go, well he like didn't tell me that him and his friend went to the beach until a week later so i have no idea if they met girls there and stuff cause why wouldn't he tell me when he did go?!?!?

Yeah that sounds alittle weird that he didn't tell you. Ask him about the girl, and if he met any there. Us girls need to keep track of our men! lol ... Im kidding. Im not gunna stalk my bf or anything..but no chicks better be messing with him!! haha good luck and I hope he wasnt with any girls at that beach x0x

thanks :) xox