What Would you DO?

  • hidentruth
    19 years ago

    There is this guy who is friends w/ benefits with me. and he knows that i really like him. but he doesnt want a gf so i take what i can get and im the friends w/ benefits.
    but after buggin him to death about this, i really want to know what i should do.
    Should i tell him that the only way he is gettin nething out of me is if im in a relationship with him, or leave him for good, or stay?
    thanks.

  • Kymberly
    19 years ago

    Tell him your not intrested in being a bootay call and that you want a rral relashionship and if he doesn't want one then he can stop looking at you for his ''needs''
    *good luck* =D

  • InMyWorld
    19 years ago

    yeah, tell him that you'll only do things with him if he's commited to you and doing those things only with you (Which would be through a relationship)...until he can do that, tell him you just wanna be friends.

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    a friend of mine is currently in this situation. she used to go out with the guy and was just so crushed when he broke up with her. so she settled for friends with benefits status, hoping that one day they would get back together. tell you straight out, that i doubt that will ever happen. just move on and forget about him.
    -A

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    friends with benefits... cutsie way of saying casual sex or fuck buddy.

    Remain blunt with yourself and look upon your own actions in the same light you would a best friends.