OMG please helpme!!!!!!!!!

  • ~**Love~Always**~
    19 years ago

    what would you do if your bf/g/f didnt say goodbye to you when you were moving and they werent ever going to see u again...
    This just happned to me and the crazy thing is my b/f saw me
    theday before i moved and he knew and he just wuldnt say good bye and he just stood there
    What should i do or say to him??

  • InMyWorld
    19 years ago

    how close were you two? he could have been denying it and maybe saying goodbye would have finalized it and he didnt want that...maybe he didnt want to believe that it was actually goodbye.

    ask him why he didnt want to say goodbye and assure him you'll miss him and tell him what you feel.

  • ~**Love~Always**~
    19 years ago

    hi thanksfor answearing we were closewe dated for 7 months andi asked why he didnt say goodbye and h said he did..

  • Kymberly
    19 years ago

    Well maybe it was just to hard for him to say good-bye and accept the fact that you were actually leaving...I wouldn't be mad at him! Just let him know that it hurt...

  • John Vlight
    19 years ago

    he might just be bad at saying goodbyes, and it might be easier for him to just not do it at all

  • Sean
    19 years ago

    He's young and can't deal with emotion that well, a goodbye such as that would hurt anybody and well, i'm immature in how i deal with emotion as well, and i'm not sure if i could say goodbye.

    Shame you had to move, young love suffers greatly under it.

    Don't dwell on it, and look back at what time you had together.

    If i had to move, i'm fairly sure i'd get a flat somehow (Even if it meant leaving college to work full-time)

    Then, i doubt that option was open to him....or if he would be capable of pulling it through...

  • baby.bluestar
    19 years ago

    i think hes just really hurt that your moving!!!

  • erikka baby
    19 years ago

    I think he doesn't want to realize that your leaving...so he says nothing to you. He's most likely hurting that bad. He's in denial. Have you ever seen Boy Meets World? Well when Topanga moved away Corey didn't want to say bye to her, so he wouldn't even hug or kiss her. Your boyfriend is most likely hurting that bad.

  • Lauren
    19 years ago

    Maybe he didn't say goodbye, becuase he doesn't think it's the end for you two, maybe he loves you so much that he's going to find you and you'll both live happily ever after. Or at least maybe he can't come to terms with the fact that you're leaving him and he knows he's going to miss you so much and he doesn't want to say goodbye because he doesn't believe its true... its a possibility

  • ~**Love~Always**~
    19 years ago

    Thank you everyone!!!! You've helped so much!