should not love

  • Kelly
    19 years ago

    I am 25, female, and I am ashamed to say this but I lust after my boyfriends best friend. We did things this weekend we should not have. I love my man but when his friend and I are together we constantly flirt. Well alcohol played a factor in this past weekend. We did not have sex but........just let your imagination do the talking. I feel like such a wh_re! I am so depressed! Please someone tell me it will be ok!!!

  • Kymberly
    19 years ago

    Honestly? I think that what the kid doesn't now can't hurt hime right? But it does need to stop for your boyfriends sake! *good luck* =D

  • Ashlee
    19 years ago

    don't worry somewhat of the same thing happend to me. i had been dating my kevin for a year before i had my first whiskey shot with his best friend. i never told my boy but it was still in the back of my mind. it eventually died down between my and his best friend and it never happend again but i did have some guilt for a while. i think that if you tell him..if he loves u enough he'll understand. but i never told and it worked out im still with kevin after two years. it'll be okay

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    just gotta hope your guy doesnt find out. and if it's this easy to cheat on him with another man, especially the dude's best friend, it doesnt sound like too healthy of a relationship.
    -A

  • Kelly
    19 years ago

    Me and his bfriend talked about it some what. We both decided to never drink with each other again and if we do we will make sure we go our separate ways.

  • Josiah Larson
    19 years ago

    it will be okey and I hope you can work this problem out and get which one you want!

  • natalie
    19 years ago

    just do as you would liek your boyfriend to do in the same situation, would you want him to tell you or keep it from you? and if theres a possibility he might find out, who would you rather he found out from, you or someone else. but at the end of the day you know yourself and your boyf so do what you think would be best xxxx