DO YOU BELIEVE IN TAKING A CHANCE FOR HAPPINESS?

well, i think it really depends on who you're going to hurt, like if it's a close friend or something. i wouldn't recommend that but some times you need to think of yourself more than others

Somewhere along the line you have to ask yourself whats best for you, and not for him (despite how much it may hurt)

If italy is a viable option and you truely think you'd be happier there, grab it.

If you are in doubt, regret is one of the harshest emotions to deal with.

i think u know the answer deep down n thats to go...its time to stand on ur own two feet....u gota draw a list up o pros and cons o staying and goin and see which one comes out tops. and go with that....but u cant do nothing anymore either stay and regain all that has fallen by the wayside or leave and see where that takes u....all the best
xxxLoUxxx

Mmm.
The best advice, is your own.

well, i also got married when i was 18. i eloped with my husband and let go of my family and friends. I also passed a time where i felt that my life is going no where. but u also have to think about it this way " your husband threw a lot of things away to be with u...how come he isnt thinking like that...?"
We have been married for 2 years now, and i am sometimes really tempted to be with other men, since i have never had any experience before, but then i think " what if i never meet a man that treats me and loves me, like my husband does, and that makes me forget about everything, and remember that i love him so much.

*didn't read all the other posts. promise to read them later*

yes.

Peaces.

I read Lil Luce's comment and I couldn't have said it better myself.
~*Freak*~

truthfuly yes with lil Luce's comment

-Josiah

Hunni....If at night when you go to sleep you are not content, and if you dream of Italy then GO. Stand on your own two feet like Lil Luce said. This is your chance, if you don't take it you will be trapped forever
~*Freak*~

yeeeeeees what she said ^^^^^

life is all about taking chances.. so yes

i agree with amy

What ever the reason and what ever the situation if you don't take a chance you'll always wonder WHAT IF.....I personally couldn't live with that.

Why don't you take your husband to Italy with you?