What should i do?..

  • hidentruth
    19 years ago

    ok, there is this guy who i like a good amount. and we are friends w/ benefits. But he is always busy, like when i call to see if he wants to hang out he is always doin sumthing else n has no time for me. then he calls up when he wants sumthing. but im not gonna do that nemore, but i want to tell him that i want to have a relationship with him, like gf/bf , but i know he doesnt want one with me. What can i do to make him want me more, and want a relationship instead of friends w/ benefits. What should i do?

    please help, thanks

    hidentruth

  • GRS
    19 years ago

    i think you should blow him off for a while maybe youll find some one better or he'll realize that he wants you. because he wouldnt just come to you for that stuff. and if hes all over town y would you want him. eww thats how diseases get spread! as soon as he realizes that your not giving all your attetion to him he'll come crawling to you, but dont give him any, make him work for it , its alot of fun. let him get blue a couple of times then he'll really want a relationship.

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    19 years ago

    "You don't know what you've got till its gone" Make him realize this...and do other things...two can play that game its time you joined in (eg with blowing him off - not the sexual way, i meant doing other things..but il ssh now lol)

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    this guy wants a shag and nothing else and u sed that he doesnt want a gf so move on sweety....find a guy who does want u for who u are n not what action u can give. u desreve better than him so go out and get sumone who deserves u.