how can I help, what should I do? please..answer

My girlfriend and I have been together only since June 10th and knew each other just for a few months and..yeah. The thing is I'm strongly against drugs, smoking, and drinking alcohol but she's been involved with that. She stopped doing mary and drank on occassion and also have been doing fewer and fewer cigarrettes. She said that was for me since she respected me..only thing is she needs to do it for herself. If I go or something happens...she needs to be able to have a handle on that still. Last night I was talking to her and she was drunk. I hate how she is when she's like that but she believes it makes her be more herself and dulls down the pain. She doesn't even trust me to tell me what's going on with her and doesn't answer me to what the pain is that is causing this. I told how it bothers me both when sober and not but...doesn't seem to matter. She only says I speak with a mind that learned but not with one that experienced. My grandfather was a drunk and he hurt himself and those he once claimed to love. I don't want my girlfriend to hurt herself..nor hurting anyone she loves/that love her, which in turn, has her hurting more. I want to know, what I can do to help her...please, there has to be a way. A fear she has is not getting any help...I know she wants help. When she tries to cry out in a way for it..she only gets sympathy. There must be something I can do...anything. What should I do?

-Cheyanne

Hey
I'm sorry for whats hapenning
I wish i could help you
but i'll think and try to find out something would help
till then you just dnt give up...try and never stop
Good Luck
Nema
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uhm, alright...