Please tell me your honest opinion

"Whats better a lie that draws a smile or the truth that draws a tear"
The story - there's these 2 girls I like and they both don't really like each other. Well I kissed one and didn't tell the other so she still thinks I've never been kissed. Well she read my xanga and found out that I'd kissed her and told me off. I had asked her a few weeks before which she would prefer a lie taht draws a smile or the truth that draws a tear and she never gave me an answer. Now she's all mad. Do you think I did the right thing? and what do I do now?

Two words: DEEP. SH!T.

I assume that you and the girl who read your xanga are going out...

I believe that you made a mistake. What you should do now is.....just talk if possible. But if she doesn't wanna talk maybe you should just leave her alone.....

Aaaah I'm not good at this "giving advice"....anybody else wanna take a whack?? Please??

I agree with her advice ^^
Yup! Yup! Go with that one!

We were going out when I kissed her but we broke up like a month before she found out.

hey if you wanna start a fight then i......

Wait.

She agreed with me?

Somebody agreed with me! YaaaaaaaaaY!!!

oh okay......so the fact that it happened while you were going out has apparently hurt her.

I stick to what i have already told you....

Good Luck......

lol. Thanks for the advise. lol. I'll put it deep within my heart and then throw it out into the abise as I cross the bridge of lost dreams

uuuh...OK lol

I'm sorry. I have major mood swings and right now I'm in emo mode so yeah. sorry to sound so depressed. kilman = David B.

it's ok. i snap on people too. no problem.

guess i'll leave.....:P

no no no I didn't snap at you lol. I'm thank full for your advise and glad someone answered me but yeah. idk. thank you though I didn't mean to make it seem like I was snapping at you. sorry

NO, i didn't think that you snapped on me lol i think we're confused...or i am anyway....what i meant to say is that i have mood swings too, so it's good holmes. It didn't seem like you were snapping on me at all NO WORRIES. That was my problem lol because usually when i think of mood swings i automatically see ANGER.

I hope my "advice" will help you though.

Good Luck (as said before lol)

P.s.- The situation will work out, so no worries...Peace!

deep shit..

but yes, that was good advice given to you..

lol. I was going out with this girl and she moved away. Well we kind of drew apart and I kissed another girl and it was kind of my first kiss. Well after I broke up with the girl that moved away she found out and has not talked to me since. That's the whole story.

Well now I see that the truth was the best answer but what do I do now that I still want atleast her friendship?

I am so happy for you!

You made a mistake and realized it!! That's a plus...

But you also lied....hmm.....

I dunno NOW, but i have to go.....i'll be back with better advice ok?

*back in a few hours

It's better to make a person cry with the truth, because if you a deceitful to this person to give them happiness, it will only be more painful when they learn the truth. This pain will not only affect this person, but also you, because you will have guilt for lying and the anger and distrust from this person for the same dishonesty. But it's to your own discretion on what is more important to you.

stupid question....

how are things now?

Truth is better in the long run, but I'll say this.

You're a man, I'm a man, I know the kind of mistakes you're making. Tip one: Don't post something on xanga (or anything else that is public) when you know it is open for all to read. You'll be digging holes for eternity if you don't follow that one.

Tip two: remember your age. You're young. This is the time to sow your oats and live freely. Feel free to do what you want and explore BUT remain honest at all times. Never lead women on. NEVER. I cannot stress that enough.

Women have a habit of talking to eachother and when it comes to relationships and gaining worldly experience CARELESS TALK (and blogging) COSTS LIVES.

B

well that's shit. make up your mind about what one you really want. no gurl likes to have her heart broken by someone she likes and someone she hates at the same time. i think that was kinda mean. which one do you like more???

hey that quote is my screen name..i say the truth that draws a tear i hate lying and i hate ppl who lie to me so yeah i like tears better and plus if my guy was cheeting on me i would rather cry and dump him than stay with his cheating ass forever...

Soemtimes the truth can hurt, but its better to be fully honest rather than lie. I would say the truth that draws the tear.