I Love someone i've never met. Is that possible?

  • Hopeless Romantic
    19 years ago

    I fell in love long ago with someone i have never even met. i know alot of people believe in internet love and alot of people don't. i just wanted a few peoples opinions on this subject is all. All advice is very much welcome.

    Mike

  • ~*Ley*~
    19 years ago

    *Sigh* a couple years ago I would have called you crazy and if I really thought about it right now I'd probably call us both crazy...But as it stands I'm just going to go with my gut and say it's possible...You can easily fall in love with someone...or at least you fell in love with the idea of this person. if they happen to be completely fake and a different person in real life you don't love them but you love the idea that you had of them o.O get it?
    ~*Freak*~

  • Jaime
    19 years ago

    I guess it COULD be possible. For a little while. Eventually, one of you will meet someone in real life, and a real-life bond is usually stronger than an internet one. Also, on the internet it's so easy for people to lie. You could lie about your age, looks, even your gender.
    So for now, I'd enjoy it well it lasts. It may last a long time, it may not. Just try not to get too attached, it's easy to get hurt. Especially when you are completely committed to them, and they dont feel the same.

  • GoodMorning
    19 years ago

    lol i agree with jimmeh.....it is a lot easier to talk to people online....but then you don't get to see them and be with them physically, which would suck.....but i do think it's possible to love someone online.....

  • Nee
    19 years ago

    Okay i have to say i'm one of those who loved by internet..we've been together for almost a year and half now..and we're happy together...
    but one of my best friends*she was*loved by the internet just like me and he told her i dont care about your looks i just care for whats inside..and just when he saw her....he never talked to her again.......
    so just be careful and dont take it too seriously until you meet her and know her true feelings and how she acts in front of you and what you feel when she tells you she loves you..then you'll know its true :)
    take care
    Nema
    XoXoXoXoX

  • Wintersolstice
    19 years ago

    I dunno...its possible im sure. I love this guy I have only talked to three times. I started to like him the first day I ever met him which was when I was thirteen and a half and within a year it was love im sure. Now im sixteen and a half and he has a gf(or he did a few months back...dunno if they are still together)...which would normaly get me to back off...but it wont this time...even tho he's outa my league, I cant help it-I love him. If I can fall in love with someone just by seing them then maybie you can fall in love with someone just by talking to them.

  • Lovemylove
    19 years ago

    Its possible because I did when I met Scotty, we didn't meet for eight months so I think its possible you can love someone you haven't yet met.

  • Jaime
    19 years ago

    Well, Jimmeh, you may be right. I just had a few bad experiences with liars, so I guess I might be biased. Still, I think in real life it there can be a stronger bond, just because you can actually look at that person when you are talking to them.

  • Loneliness Is A State Of Mind
    19 years ago

    Damn, I agree with the above poster. I hart u Jimmeh =^.^=

  • ~*Ley*~
    19 years ago

    Jimmeh...I must agree completely with you...and in the words of the above post "i hart u jimmeh" o.O okay not really but i thought it would be funny to say ^_^
    ~*Freak*~

  • Jaime
    19 years ago

    Well if it works for you, I say go for it. I guess it's a matter of who can handle it or not. (which is apparently not me lol)

  • »«¤ß詤»«
    19 years ago

    well *stupidly* i did fall for someone over da net a few months bak it was all good sum flirting here and there but thats all it was i believe u hav 2 really know someone to love them and how can u COMPLETELY no sum1 with out meeting them

  • Jackie Bilson
    19 years ago

    My aunt met someone off the net. They're married now :)

  • Shædow Poet
    19 years ago

    Just to tell you, you may fall in love with a personality on the net, but they could be completely different in real life. I don't mean stalker-like. I just mean that faults arent as frequent and visable on the net as they are in real life. A person can be completely different. I have noticed the same thing after meeting someone.

  • Hopeless Romantic
    19 years ago

    WOW! thanks for everyones opinion. alot of different views here! Mine kinda goes like this. I've known someone for a long while and I love their personality. Talking to them is one of the greater joys of my day. But, like several people have said, its easy to lie on the internet. I choose to believe that since I do not lie to her, she doesn't to me. Some people call that being stupid or naive, I call it being in love.

    Mike

  • Brokeback
    19 years ago

    It's possible,,
    My best friend, A, and I met someone, P, over the internet and we're friends for 2 years now,,
    And that guy visited us while he lives in another country and really clicked,,
    And you guessed it: A and P are in love!
    I've never seen A so happy as she is now,,!
    I hope for her it will last,,

  • Naaria
    19 years ago

    It is possible.
    Love can be found many different ways. :D

  • mkhoviyeun
    19 years ago

    i know it's possible to love someone you haven't met. to me, love is spending time with someone. you'll feel the safe and happy when you get to be with that someone. for instance, talking on the phone, chatting, or hanging-out together. when you know a lot about another person, you'll feel love. i love this guy from tx although i haven't met him yet, i love his personality. he sure knows how to make me smile with meaning. i love him today 7-7-05 Th. @ 12.15 PM cali timezone!!

  • ---AL---
    19 years ago

    Yeah...I would of said that it's retarted and stupid to even the idea of crushing on the internet. But stupid is as stupid does, and that's how i met my ex. But the only thing you have to watch out for is it is very easy to fake a personality online, or be less shy and just all around a different person, trust when i met my ex, she was different, unfortunately, it was too different.