How screwed up is this?

  • ...:NiKi:...
    19 years ago

    ok, I recently broke up with my now ex-boyfriend. and it was pretty much my fault since i supposedly "didnt treat him rite". ok, well now, im pretty much over him, and have started to move on. There has now been another guy that I've been friends with for a while, who I've been flirting with. Well, this past weekend, he and his now ex-girlfriend (who i'm also good friends with) broke up. Now, she thinks that I'm flirting with him, and on his side about their break-up, and I am not picking sides for either of them. Also, my ex, and the guy i'm currently starting to crush on are friends as well. Is there any way that I can possibly get my crush to like me without hurting my friend, and wrecking all of this completely???? plz post and help me on this!!!

  • ...:NiKi:...
    19 years ago

    plz, can ne1 out there help me at all with this? im so confused rite now!

  • Wintersolstice
    19 years ago

    Get them together in a room and tell them all the point blank honest truth. Scary but if you can brave it then it might save you alot of weeks worrying.

  • Melissa Dunne
    19 years ago

    It sounds like the best thing to do is be completely honest with everyone. There is no way to go about this situation without some one getting hurt, but if you try to be sneaky (not saying you would!!) the truth is bound to come out in the end and it would hurt people so much more.

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    no i dont think there is tbh at least not yet...wait until the dust settles a bit... at the moment theres too much hurt, mistrust and feelings flying around from everyone, and each other judgin each others actions etc...
    my advise would be wait until everything seems back to normal and then make a move if u still like each other...
    xxxLoUxxx

  • Jaime
    19 years ago

    I would be careful.. going after your friends ex and your ex's friend. I honestly don't suggest it, at least not for a while.

  • ...:NiKi:...
    19 years ago

    ok, thx every1, that helped me some, n if ne1 else out there wants 2 comment or sumtin, just send me a msg or w/e !

  • ~*Ley*~
    19 years ago

    I'm with Lil Luce and Jaime. give it time, its a sticky situation. if you are really such great friends with the girl then she wont let it get to her after a while.
    ~*Freak*~

  • »«¤ß詤»«
    19 years ago

    tell ur friend da truth u like him but wait a while not straight after day hav broken up i dont c a prob just take ur time n make sure u talk 2 ur friend first n also make sure he feels da same way or u could wreck all friendships

  • ...:NiKi:...
    19 years ago

    ok, thx every1!!! u helped a lot!