a guy....

  • Court
    19 years ago

    ok well i really like this guy....hes one of the most awesome and sweetest guys i have met...

    but im too scared to say anything to him....cause i dont know how he feels, i dont want to scare him off by saying something....

    there was a list of questions he had for people to answer them...and i answered his.......and he answered mine....here were someone of his answers....

    ohh and hes saving himself till marriage...which makes him even more awesome!!!

    1. Give me your number?already did

    2. Have sex with me?waiting till marriage

    3. Let me kiss you?idk maybe

    4. Watch a movie with me...even a really sweet one?yup

    5. Let me take you out to dinner?yup

    6. Drive me somewhere/anywhere?sure

    8. Be my gf/bf?idk

    10. Listen to me if I called you crying even if you were out with all of your friends?sure

    11. Buy me a drink if i didnt have money?yup

    12. Take me home for the night?yeah nothin gross though

    13. Would you let me sleep in your bed?yup i got other places

    15. Sit in the doctors office with me because I didn't want to go alone?yup

    17. Come pick me up at 3 am because my car ran out of gas in the middle of nowhere?yup

    18. Do you think im cute , sexy , or hot(only pick one)?cute

    19. Do you like my style?yup

    20. Do you think im funny?yup

    21. Do you care about me?yup

    22. Would you cry if i died?yup

    23. Would you stop me if i tried to commit suicide?ofcourse

    24. Would you dance with me?yup

    25. Would you sing happy birthday to me?yup

    27. Would u marry me?idk

    32. Take advantage of me if i wasn't drunk?never

    i mean none are like just omg answers....but yea....

    and like he will IM me....to talk about nothing....i mean he could just not IM me....but he still IMs me to just sit there and randomly say a few words ever so often....

    weve been doing that for the last few days....like we will talk during the day for a while....and then one will have to leave or whatever...and we will start talking again around like 9 or so and wont end till like 3 in the morning or so....

    so i mean...some things are saying he might kinda like me....but idk....i just dont want to ruin the friendship we have......

    any ideas? advice? anything??

    thanks!

    *court*

  • Court
    19 years ago

    u sure?

    i asked him to the movies the other day....he said "sure i dont mind".....i wasnt thrilled with the answer..but hey it wasnt no....

    but i dont want to like bug him about it and ask him when and what movie and stuff.....

  • Court
    19 years ago

    ive kinda given him a few hints that i like him....

    im kinda gettin some bad vibes from him....

    im not liking this...i really really like this guy =(

  • Court
    19 years ago

    i need some cheering up.... =/

  • ~*Ley*~
    19 years ago

    hmmm just be flat out straight with him. "listen, i like you, I'd like to go on a date with you to see if maybe you like me to. What do you think?" and then just see how the date goes. I bet he hasn't really thought of dating you *that sounds worse than i meant it* i mean he probably has never thought of you as anything but a friend...not because you arn't his type maybe its because he didnt think you liked him or you're out of his league but i bet if you give him a date he wont forget that he'll think of you that way and really like you. and i bet you're relle pretty so he would be able to resist you anyway. and you seem very sincere and sweet. SO good luck and i wanna know how it goes ^_^
    ~*Freak*~

  • Court
    19 years ago

    thanks! yea maybe just being flat out honest with him will be good idk...

    ill let ya know!

    *court*

  • Court
    19 years ago

    i told him that i like him.....

  • ~*Ley*~
    19 years ago

    And???? I'm guessing .... means it didn't go so well o.O
    ~*Freak*~

  • Court
    19 years ago

    went better than i thought....

    he told me that he "has alot of things going on right now"....

    but were still talking....and i told him if he ever needs anything im always here and yea...

    i was reading his blogs...and hes really down...i just dont know about what...but hes doing better he says...

    but it went alot better than i thought....just not exactly how i wanted...but oh well its all good

  • ~*Ley*~
    19 years ago

    At least you know that he really does have a lot of things going on and it's not just an excuse. Just be there for him when he wants you to be. And keep things cool don't pressure him or anything. After a while show him that you are still interested in a subtle way and I can almost guarentee that you will get this guy. Good luck. Lemme know what happens
    ~*freak*~

  • Court
    19 years ago

    thanks!!

    i will!

  • Court
    19 years ago

    i found out today from a friend that he likes me!!

    he just wants to get to know me better!!!

    yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!! =)

    this guy is like almost THE perfect guy....hes basically everything that i want in a guy.....