Is it worth it?

alright so im updating everyone from my last post... so i havent talked to this guy i love in a while right and then one night he calls me and he was like hi i wanted to see what you were up to cuz i havent talked to you in a while. And he called me like every other day at like 1 or 2 am just to talk. Then my other friend and him had a sleep over, they are both friends too, so they called me at like 1 am and my guy was like so can you come over and i was like no its 1 am and he was like comeon just sneek out your dad will never know and stuff like that he just kept on asking for me to come over and stuff and then the other guy was like well since your not coming do u know anyother hott girls who can comeover and my guy was like i dont want other girls i want you. So i made him a deal that i would comeover in the morning before i had to go to work so i did and he was all over me always looking at me and laying on my and he sat really close to me and he kept touching my arm or my leg and stuff and we went in to the comp room and he picked me up and spun me around!! well i will stop with all the detail but yeah i was like in heaven!! So i thought at that point i had it made and he was going to ask me out, well i was wrong. My guy friend calls me one night and he is like this girl and him are sharing a chair and i can only see one of his arms! What the hell is that!!! So i was heart broken and cried forever. P.s the girl he shared a chair with, he aked out a while ago but she said no cuz the other guy likes her and yeah ..but my guy told me he didnt like her anymore cuz he didnt want to lose his friend and i hear about him sharing a chair with her! I dont know what to do or what to think. I havent had a chance to talk to him about it and if i did i dont even know how to aproch the situation. Does he like me? Is he worth it or is he a player? Please help me! I will take any advice!!

Love Ash

sorry i didnt realize that it was that long

the bastard ain't worth it. a dipshit like that is only a player. he'll mess with your heart and mind. to sum it up for the moment i agree with what the person above has said.

Peaces.

im sorry id love to help but i cudnt read it all my eyes went buggy. if you care to break that down into just the facts ill give some advice
~*Freak*~

well thanks for all of ur advice.. umm i really cant break it down lol srry..

god i hate it when that happens. when u think oh this is it he's gonna ask me out but then he ends up with some other girl a couple of days later. the only thing you can do is let him go. he's not worth your time or your love if he'll do that. there is always someone better out there for you that needs you more than you'll know but you're still stuck on a guy you want and dont truly need. good luck to you

thanks everyone but heres the thing that really gets me.. hes always told me that if i want something bad enough that i will fight for it and never give up...I had my guy friend talk to him and he reported to me that they agreed that i shouldnt try so hard to let him know that i like him and that we should just hang out and talk like we have been. But we have been really close friends for a year now and weve talked about EVERYTHING, we planed our future together if we were to get married, we even talked about losing our virginity together and having kids and our life as a married couple. So does that change the situation?? idk im just so confused and hurt but whenever i try to talk to him about it i feel really stupid and change the subject really quick.

im just so confused i really dont want to give him up but he can really hurt me sometimes when he doesnt mean to.

you gotta make yourself happy hun.....but don't hurt yourself in the process for a dipshit dick like that.

Peaces and Good Luck.

Again....I didn't read all of this. But I can relate to the feeling stupid when asking about the relationship and such. I got myself a friend that I love and I'm always confused if he loves me back...And it's hard to ask. But..I just do it...I take a deep breath and just do it. After that what happens is up to him, the hardest part is done.
~*Freak*~

anybody else??? guys??

I'm going to have to agree with what other people say. This guy doesn't seem like he "likes" you, only that hes after one thing. It sounds harsh I know, but it is true. The best thing you can do is forget him, find somebody who likes you for who you are, not just for your body. I've been there myself with my ex boyfriend actually...he made me do stuff when i wouldn't do it he was close to dumping me 1 day he did, i went round after, we did some stuff and i thought he was gonna ask me back out but he never did. I was so upset and felt so dirty, but I did move on and now im with a great guy xx