How do you get OvEr HeArTbReAkS???

  • ..::.alreadyGoNe..::.
    19 years ago

    icecream just isn't cutting it this time... and i don't want to harm myself... i just wanna know some good ways that i can get over a heartbreak.

  • In_Your_Eyes
    19 years ago

    I've had this problem soo many times. I found that sitting around thinking about it didn't do much for me at all. It only made things worse. I sat around watching movies (My Best Friends Wedding, and comedies that made me laugh). I hung out with my friends nonstop. I read books. I just did things that took my mind off of my broken heart, and found that I didn't need a man to complete my life. My friends made me happy. Eventually the right man will come along...

    ~Hope this helped~

  • Olivia
    19 years ago

    try anything and everything to get ur mind off it. but you also have to make peace with it or it will never go away. make sure u kno everything is a too way street so it cant be blamed on one person unless ur blaming the other one. all i did was just try and try to hang on and get through. with time all things heal. somethings just need time.

    LIBBY

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    you're going to have to accept it. and the one who broke your heart, just think about it as his loss. it helped me.

    Peaces.

  • Court
    19 years ago

    dont just sit home and watch tv and sit on the comp...

    that gives you too much time to think about it...get out and hang with friends...just get out of the house and do things....if u just sit at home your gonna be thinking about it too much...

    i know this from experience...during the school year i wouldnt think about it because i would be with friends and out and about...but when there was a long break or when summer got here..i would be home all the time and that would just get me down, because i had too much time to think....

    dont think....just do, get out and do stuff!!!!

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    yeah don't let the bastard hold you down and stop your life.

  • hidentruth
    19 years ago

    i did the worst to get over a guy, i slept with another guy. i was making new memories plus the other guy was more of a rebound i guess u could say.

    its not the best advice but its what i got. its what got me over the other guy.

  • xfAdInGxaWaYx
    19 years ago

    Do stuff. Do anything. Keep busy that's what helped me.

  • Juliana
    19 years ago

    a bottle of tequila...and an after party...always does the trick. Got my heart broken many times, hurt many times, tried harming myself once, but didnt find a solution.
    get drunk, go out, and meet new people...have fun...nothing is worth it...you'll meet the right person soon enough.

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    Aaron: Justi? Lol I like that. :P

    Peaces.

  • Court
    19 years ago

    sometimes you just never get over a heartbreak....i know there are many things that you can do to help you for the moment....but in the long run...when all those little things are gone...you find that you still arent over it....

    its been almost 2 years and ive done many things to get over my ex...and they help for a moment...but even after 2 years...i know im still not over him.....and sometimes thats just something you have to deal with....thats when you TRULY love someone...you just cant move on.....

  • EoB
    19 years ago

    Let time heal you

  • ..::.alreadyGoNe..::.
    19 years ago

    hey thanx for all the advice i'll definitley try sum of them!

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    heart aces hurt but the memories are just gonna kill ya so don't think bout it.

  • ...:NiKi:...
    19 years ago

    omg, i just got over sum1 lol.... well, just try 2 check out 'other guys' lol that helps... and hang wit friends like every1 else is sayin... n try not 2 think of the loser... cuz it was his loss ya no! n just try 2 keep busy and go on with your life... i no, it took me awhile 2, but now im over the ass n ive moved on, n now i like sum1 else! so its all good!

  • Ashley Daniels
    19 years ago

    o wow, i just got over sum1 too-lol. i would say just look at other guys, that helped me alot! lol. and and like everyone else is saying-hang out with your friends. and keep yourself busy doing something... its way better that you always have something to do or someplace to go-cause then you wont spend your time thinking about the guy.It took me 4 months to get over a guy that I dumped.. yeah sad huh. lol

  • _
    19 years ago

    lol icecream.. umm i think only time can.. but try to change ur mind and that will help alot

  • Steven
    19 years ago

    takes time!... friends.. and alot of music! or let the feelings out by telling it to a close friend and that will put the rock on u down... and make u feel better