Help me out with this guy!!

  • Kymberly
    19 years ago

    Okay My ex boyfriend and I were going out for about a month and then we got into this figth because latly I have been bitchy and under alot of stress and he exploded on me and broke up with me then like an hour later he told me he was soo...sorry and didn't mean for that to happen and that he would never want to break up with me and then he told me that ''he loves me more than I will ever know'' . So then ..lol..one of his firends imed me and told me that he really would like to go back out so I was pretty happy...The next day he called me from another girls house her name is courtney and she is known as a slut so I don't know what they were doing but he spent the nigth there and when I asked him about it he just told me i couldn't get mad because were not going out...I know that technically I can't but I'm just questioning if what he told me is true! I would really like some adviplease help me out! Talk to me here or on aim/aol Angelbaby13999!! Thank you soo much! =D

  • In_Your_Eyes
    19 years ago

    I think he isn't worth it. Only one guy is...I wouldn't waste my time on one person who takes you on a big roller coaster ride. I've done that before, it only causes more pain. The ups and the downs aren't healthy for anyone. It wasn't doing me any good at all. I understand what you are going through, and I know it would be hard to let him go. I guess you have a few options. You could try to talk to him about the way you feel...tell him you only questioned why he was at her house because you still have feelings for him. You could just let him go and move on with your life (when he sees you aren't interested he'll come running back to you). You could let him settle down a bit, maybe he is just as confused as you are, and then try to talk to him. I really don't think he is worth it...but that is just my opinion. Good luck~

  • None
    19 years ago

    well, as a guy myself, I would say to not go back out with him...he seems to be messing around with you with the loophole being "we were not going out, so you can not get mad"...I strongly urge you to NOT be one of those girls who gets tricked into a phoney relationship where they end up getting hurt miserably...save yourself the pain and time, and do not go back out with this guy...he seems like a "player" type of guy, who does not care for emotions, and is only in it for the fun...

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    he's a muthafu(kin playa. he ain't worth it.

    get a rabid cat to scratch/bite his nuts....

    Peaces.

  • Kymberly
    19 years ago

    lol....thankz for your advice!!

  • M2Heart
    19 years ago

    he's a worthless jerk if he ever wants to go out with you again tell him he isnt worth your time and energy

  • Ashley
    19 years ago

    i would say dont get back together with him cuz obviously he wasnt that sorry if a few days later he was with some other girl, hes not worth it.