Can't Decide!

  • Anna
    19 years ago

    Hey! I can't decide between two boys. I only really like one, but he doesn't seem to care about me much anymore, but his friend really seems to care about me. What do you guys think?

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    Choose the one you think will care about you most.
    *the first thing that came to mind*

    Peaces.

  • ~*Ley*~
    19 years ago

    Who puts the butterflies in your tummy?
    ~*Freak*~

  • Anna
    19 years ago

    Well, Kit does, but still....I think Caleb is MORE caring....I DON"T KNOW. At least Kit hugged me......but so did Caleb. Caleb hugged me 6 different times in 3 hours... I don't know! HELP!

  • Anna
    19 years ago

    Sorry, I don't know whats gotten into me... It's like no one understands how I feel....Can someone help me?

  • ~*Ley*~
    19 years ago

    Well....I mean you can't go for someone that is more caring if you don't feel the same way for him. It's so nice to go out with a guy that really cares about you...But it gets overrated if you don't care the same way. i speak from experience
    ~*Freak*~

  • Anna
    19 years ago

    Yeah, I think I'm starting to get feelings for him, but I still like Kit a lot, but I don't know if he likes me or not, so it's got me paronoid...

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    19 years ago

    Hmmm a situation...i can't really advise you on who you should pick, you need to do that on your own. If you like this Kit guy a lot more than the other, maybe hes the guy...but all you can do is follow your instincts and your heart. Good luck xx

  • Anna
    19 years ago

    Thanks! Well, I saw them both again today, just as usual, Kit was showing off, oh well, I hope he doesn't hurt himself! Can anyone else give me advice?

  • ..::.alreadyGoNe..::.
    19 years ago

    holy crap! i had this same exact problem! i really liked this one guy but he really didn't care i was there but his friend was really into me and liked me. it took some time in dark closets thinking about it but the only thing you can do is think the hardest... there is always the one you want and one that needs you but you just don't know it. so i decided to go for this guys best friend who i happened to know quite well and i was friends with him. so i asked him out and told him i loved him because i really thought i did. he said he'd think about it and then i heard from his friend (the other guy i thought i liked) and he said that he went out with this other girl while i was still waiting for an answer. (i'm sorry this is soo long) i still haven't talked to him about it so i dont know if it's true. but follow your heart. besides why try for the other guy if he doesn't like you much anymore? what i've learned is just try to let him go. it may take awhile but try to. and i bet deep down in your heart you love his friend but it just hasn't hit you full in the face yet. just don't be too foward about your feelings cuz then he might get kinda scared. take it casually. good luck to you! i hope you choose the right guy in the end and it all works out for you. because if love doesn't work for me i hope it'll work out for others. omg this is sooo freaky cuz this is the same exact situation i was in. can i know more about them???
    good luck to you
    Tiffy
    (once again sry it's so long. my emotions got the best of me...)

  • Anna
    19 years ago

    Its fine! Any more advice? I can take everyones suggestions!

  • Already Beautiful
    19 years ago

    u know, maybe this guy u feel doesnt care anymore, may actually be having issues. dont just push him away straight away. talk to him. trust your instincts. in the end, if nothing is left but a dark future together, choose the other. dont get your heart broken. mwah. best of luck hun

  • JeaninaMorgan
    19 years ago

    Girl~
    your just probably going by looks and maybe the *friend* doesn't have them but if he truly likes you for the right reason then go for it... and don't wait for the guy that doesn't even seem to notice you... and the best adivse someone can give you--follow your hearth...
    hugs and kisses~`
    sweet Sugar

  • Anna
    19 years ago

    Well, I think I like Kit. I think next time I see him, I'm going to tell him how I feel. Should I tell him? I have already decided that I like him. Should I tell him?

  • Brokeback
    19 years ago

    You should definatly tell him,, =)
    If you're ready,,

  • Anna
    19 years ago

    Yeah, he cares about me, and everything else, plus, I'm not used to saying this, but he is cute, but he has his mood swings.....

  • Anna
    19 years ago

    Anyone else?