I Need Help!! Family drifting

*sigh* i dunno.....i'm sorry, your relationship with your dad sounds like the relationship i have with my mom......i honestly don't know what you should do, i'm sorry......but if you need someone to talk to you can email me in the private message thingy in my profile...sorry i can't help much.....

Listen, I dont know you or your father or much of your situation. But I do know this, as much as you fight with your dad, be grateful you have one. dont get the wrong Idea, I have a dad. Him and my mother were never together, and I grew up with out him. I lived with my grandmother, my aunt and her daughter, and my mother for a while. then I lived alone with my mother(which is still my current living situation). I had no Male figure in my life at all till about 2 years ago. My dad, Hes a great guy. He has 5 kids of his own, and they are all older then me. so not only did I miss out on my dad, I missed out on having older sisters and a brother too. My dad used to send cards and presents in the mail around christmas and my birthday, and that was it. While my whole life he lived less then half an hour away from me. I never cared at all, but I miss then so much. So many people fight with thier parents and say they hate then... well I dont have one of my parents around and trust me it sucks. And for all you guys out there who fight with your older siblings, take in the chance to get to them, cuz it wont be long till they are gone!

Sorry thats long, but I feel very strongly about this, and it makes me cry cuz I think about them so much that it tears me apart to NOT be part of thier lives.

in my personal opinion everyone goes through what you are going through...it's no big deal...