guys, I need help...

So I do love him, But i cheated on him... like eight months ago. And he knows about it, and we're still together, but sometimes I wonder If he still quetions me. I mean, I've compleatly changed. But I dont know how to gain his trust back. He seems to act just fine, exsept when we talk about him doing things that I dont like him doing, like drinking. He says that i do things he dosent approve of too. I just dont know what to do. I mean he's the sweetest guy, always there for me. But he wont come to me about anything. He wont call me if he as a problem. How do i get him to open up to me?

~ Breeze

Trust is a very important thing in every relationship. You lost his trust, and it is going to be very hard to get it back. You are going to have to show him that you know you were wrong, and you will NEVER do it again. You need to give him reason to trust you. It takes time to gain trust, and it is so easily broken. Be careful. Understand that it is going to take time. Don't give up. Talk to him, even if he refuses, but don't keep mentioning it. Apologize once, then let it go, use most of your time trying to gain his trust back. If you dwell on the apology he will get annoyed. I hope this helped. Good luck!