pissed at my dad

i'm so pissed at my dad. ok. here's the thing. he is a traveling construction worker, right. well my mom told me today, the most reason why people choose to travel in any job, for an extended amount of time, is that they don't want to deal w/ everyday household crap. more less, they don't want to deal with FAMILY (that's a big one), chores, bils, whatnot, you get the point. he doesn't want to deal w/ us on a day to day basis. that pisses me off so bad. here i thought my dad loved us a lot, not that he doesn't, but i thought he loved us more than he apparently does. and come to find out, he is just using he job to get out of the major part of parenting, being around the kids. i can't even express how much it pisses me off. i don't even want to hear his voice, much less see him. for all i care he can keep his a** in north carolina. as long as he's there away from us i guess he is fine. it's not like we are wild and crazy, we are calm compared to most kids. that pisses me off so bad.

whatever, you don't want to hear my raving about my jackass dad. your dad is probably worse. i'm sorry for saying that, but i know there are fathers out there that would do a lot to hurt their children, and they do.

i'll shut up now. i just had to get that out of my system.

uhh...i love my daddy he is the only one i can talk to......uhh i dont know what to say about ur dad??uhh *stares at celing while twidiling thumbs*

my family is having issues with my dad at the moment, he tells my mum he dont like her, and upsets everyone, and we get pretty mad at him sometimes, so i know how you feel, hope it works out.

what ur dad tells your mom he doesnt like her..are they married

hey why was your mum saying that in the first place? was she mad with him , or did he say summat to her. because maybe it isnt just what you think, maybe theres more to it. ya never know xxxx

Well, you don't know his situation but maybe he just wants to travel and having a family slowed his dreams down? I'm pretty sure he still does love you, and he could be having problems with your mum.
I don't know how it is my dad died when i was young so yeah but he probably still loves you heaps!

Umm...Have some respect for him after all hes making money to pay your bills, to support his family, to give you dosh. My dad drives me nuts cause he's always practicing for his work. He is an entertainer and let me tell you-hearing the same songs played and played over and over every day until they are perfect for 16 and half years (esspecialy whilst studying for exams)
is not easy, but he has to practice cause he has to work and he has to work to make money for his family. Cut your dad some slack, he's paying for your food and shelter after all.

Please don't get mad at me asking you this I may be completely off the point. But because your mum was the one that said these things to you could it be that she wanted you to have this reaction? What I'm really saying is would your mum tell you something to get you mad at your dad when he might not really deserve it?

she wouldn't do that....i'm not offended or anything. it's just that my mom's friend's husband also said that's why he travels too....and she's talked to others also. she said he told her that. now she may be lying to me..but i don't think she is. i realize he pays the bills still, and still puts food on the tables....but it still is cold of him to use his job to get out of seeing us everyday.

i don't know. i'm still going to be pissed about it when i think about it. but wouldn't you be pissed to if u found that out about ur dad? i think it is a reflex feeling type thing. if u were put in this situation, a dad that was usually home and usually there for u, using his job to get away from u? i don't know...i think whether or not i have good reason, i'm still going to be pissed. just a feeling i can't shake. but thank u for ur responses.

Why did you piss on your dad?

i didn't say i would piss ON my dad. i said i was pissed AT my dad. i'm just mad at him.

Haha good one!

i dont like my dad either long storie ... sorry about your luck