I hate my mom

has she always been like this?

my mom is like that too... you just have to try get her to mellow out by mellowing out your attitude as well cause that was my problem. it was partly my fault so you have to find a balance. things will get better eventually
-A

i always fight with my mum, i threaten to run away and she just laughs and tells me to go ahead. That makes me feel like she dont care, but she does, i just annoy her sometimes. Whatever you do, dont annoy her, if you are angry at her, show yourself that you are strong by not retaliating. then maybe she'll listen. good luck

I don't want to come across as a hardassed...but i'd most anything to be able to have an argument with my mother...as she passed away a few years ago.

We didn't always get on either, but at the time i didn't realize how special she was and how hard she was trying to get through to her wayward son.

It's fecking hard to be a parent ya.

Yeah parents can be on our cases 24/7. My dad never shuts up about me becoming an entertainer like him-I WANNA BE A VET!!! He just can’t handle that and mum she runs after ppl all day like some kind of lackey and often puts them before us-which really pisses me off. Then she comes home and acts as if we are best buddies or something. She never keeps her promises, she constantly thinks im to up something (me?), and she acts like she likes everything I like. Sorry mum-but the three qualities I look for in friends are loyalty, trust
and their own personality.

shes your mom end of story. thats just the way it is with parents, she just cares you know?she's not trying to piss you off.... me and my mom get into it sometimes too ha ha we dont talk for days sometimes same with my dad but we usually do end up making up and i know that they just care...even if at times they dont understand exactly whats goin on my head. but you should be thankful you got parents that care enough to fight with you.

Hypothetical(sp) situation:
You and your mom are fighting, just because she went through some of your things. She grounds you and tells you to go to your room. Meanwhile you are thinking shes the worst parent in the world. She tells you shes going out to get some milk at the store. You: Whatever! then you turn on the tv and land on a news chanel. They are going on about a story of a Mom who beat her 8 year old daughter, told her she was worthless, and totally fucked her up then abandoned her in a ware house. You instantly feel bad about thinking that and wait for your mom to return home so you can appologize. a few hours later, you start to worry about where she is and you hear a knock at the door. Its a cop, come to tell you your mom has been in a car wreck and she didn't make it.

Do you still hate your mom? Think twice about saying things like that, whatever the reason!!

-Robyn

wow...that sucks

don't say you hate your mom. you'll regret it for one day you will lose her. sad but true, everyone live and die. just keep that in mind. be nice to your mom and give her some respect. talk to her nicely.

#1 mom is right
#1 if mom is wrong, please read #1. =)

I don't get along with my other either but she stays out of my shit! I would never let her get away with going through my personal things! You need to sit your mom down and talk to her and explain to her that you have anger towards her and you don't undersand why she keeps hurting you like this and ask her politly to stay out of your things and if she doesn't listen then slap that bi**...o0kay totally kidding but talk to her because the worst that could happen is you get grounded and thats noyt that bad!!

all parents are annoying at times... i suppose you just have to live with it or fight fire with fire...

*jackie*

true true.. but then she's still your biological mom and she won't live forever. just be grateful that she's still alive and just be nice to her. try to reason with her and if she doesn't listen to you save money and move out on your own.. hihi

hmm interesting

that is just a normal mom. u dont hate her, believe me. u might think if she wasnt there ur life wud b better, but every1 needs a mom. deep down inside u no u love her.
lYnDi

I know some phyco moms, and lets just say nothing on here right now compares to how bad some of theese lady's are. Heh. But i dont have this problem, i mean i used to, untill i started retaliating. which i dont recomend. Its just they were pushing me too hard, so i pushed them hard back with making them pay atention to me. and my bad self. heh. But anyways. all i can say is Live with it and learn from it. Because you'll move out someday, i promise. And when you do become a parent or w/e. you'll be determined never to be like your parents were.

my moms always been psycho,exactly like yours... shes abusive too...so damn nosy and she wont let me talk to boys and if she finds out im friends with one she thinks hes my boyfriend! like the guy i like named josh who tried to come over :(

Exactly. Your mom loves you. Appreciate her for she's what you have and you could be off a whole lot worse.

Peaces.