What do you do

Tell em to kiss your ass and show them that you can be strong without them, because you can, everyone can. No one wants to, but everyone can. Be there for youself, one day you'll have to anyway, so you might as well learn now.
Good luck
~*Freak*~

Hey think about this...: she is most likely right now more messed up right now than you are...Not in a bad way but she obviously doesn't know how to act or what to do...it doesn't mean she is giving up on you, her mind is probably clouded with her own problems. I've been that way a lot with friends.
~*Freak*~

Leave it be. Don't stress too much over it. You guys are just drifting a bit...Tell her she means a lot to you and then just leave it at that. Sometimes you think you're gonna lose a friend but it just turns out that both of you are having bad weeks. Just let the air settle a bit. Don't worry too much
~*Freak*~

That why I say just let it go for now. You arn't giving up on her you're giving her time and space. that she obviously needs
~*Freak*~

Let it go and if they really care. They will be back for you. They will learn they need you.

"You arn't giving up on her you're giving her time and space. that she obviously needs"

She may be giving a cry for help. Would you want to just leave her be? No, you would want to be persistant. You would know if a friend sincerely doesn't want to talk to you, just because she's annoyed or whatever. but it sounds like this friend is going through some shit, and she needs someone there. Granted, she's definitley not going to admit it, so you have to throw yourself on them to let them know SOMEONE is here.

I wasn't saying abandon her...i was saying let her know that you are there and give her the option of coming to you or not but don't drive yourself insane in the process. she has already thrown herself on the poor girl. she's going nuts. now its time for her to just back off but still let her know she is there.
~*Freak*~

even if you need to stop for a little bit. if you have a really strong friendship. you will be able to handle the space.

"Let it go and if they really care. They will be back for you. They will learn they need you."

Letting go is the worst sign of affection.

From what I see, I beleive that her friend is doing the exact same thing. and look how worried and stressed she has this person! And, since she's doing this, and Kristen keeps coming back, Kristens just showing that she's a good friend and when her best friend decides to do the old "let go and see if they come back" thing, she comes back for her because she cares that much.

Everyones different with their stubbornness. I honestly think something terrible has happened to her to make her close up all of a sudden like this. My friend did the EXACT same thing. and in the end, after me and my best friend CONSTANTLY calling her and going to her house unexpected and writing letters, she finally realized that we DO care. and everything in our friendship started coming back.

i have been there. even if it isnt the same position it still hurts to let go. maybe it will work maybe it will not. it is up for them to decide. you have to learn that some times you feel better. after a day of rest. then a day of trying to hard.

i dont quite get what u mean..did u guys have a fight, or is she just distancing herself?

i say those people dont deserve to have you in their life and they are piss poor friends anyone who would do that to someone obviously is a bad person so dont get to worked up about it....i know its a lot easier said then done but you get my point