need advice

my g/f broke up with me because she said she is afraid of being hurt, i was sorta lost for words at the time, but i need some advice on what is good to say to her? i tried saying i'm not going to hurt you, i will never hurt you....what else will help?!

... i know what your girlfriend is going threw... alot of people are scared of being hurt ... therfore ... they feel that if they dump you ...just tell her how much she means to you .. and tell her that you wouldnt hurt ... i no that you have probably said all this befor but if you keep saying it maybe she'll get it ... if that doesnt work ... try doing sometihng really sweet other then that .. im sorry i cant help you :(

Thanks for advice! i'll take you up on it!! thanks!

try to be there when she needs you too...she obviously is going through somethin but if she tries to avoid you leave her alone

you could probably give her a little time alone, to think

I've dumped guys for the same reason again and again, just when you start to care about then you either cheet or dump. Shes scared of commetment, so tell her, look we'll start as friends again, and take it slow. show her you love her in a million ways, and it will take more then getting dumped to get rid of you. once she sees that you will stay, she might not be as scared. once she sees that she cant shake you esaly, she might try it again.

Jake put up with me, and my first month bs. Like i said I was the same way, but i didnt dump him, i cheeted. were still together, its been going on for nine months, and I only ever cheeted that once. I would never leave him, or go astray now that I know its ok to love.