Who thinks self harming is selfish?????

*sigh* I've tried to refrain but i can't any longer.

Tell us about your horrible life, since you keep saying how "hard" it is.

Peaces.

Maybe if we did know a little about you, we could help more. Why don't you tell us what's up, and why you feel the need to do this to yourself. Then, maybe we could help you.

Ismail-

I meant thank god we have someone who can speak their opinion with truth and honesty.

Peaces.

Taylor, don't listen to him. You're not rude - just stating the truth.

Ari: What about me? I have been speaking from the heart and I am tearing myself up trying to help Chealsea. How can you say that Ismail is the only one here who can speak truth and honesty??

i dont want you to help me! i dont even know you people! why would i want to tell you anything about MY life?!

just please leave me alone

I am sorry Marahani, you are truthful and honest as well. :) I am sorry for that one...

As many people here are...so yes...

Peaces.

you have no right whatsoever to tell ME that nothing is wrong with MY life!!! :@:@:@ you have no idea

IM NOT MAKING ANYTHING UP! FOR FUCKS SAKE!

Well we are trying to have an idea but clearly you won't let us in!

Peaces.

thats because i dont know you! why should i trust people that i dont even know?!

Understand Now?

I never said there was nothing wrong with your life. I am sure you have problems just like we all do. We just want to know what we can do to make it easier. We want to talk to you to help you. You don't want to talk to us because we are strangers...? Wouldn't that make it easier, because we don't know you and can't judge you. Doctors are relative strangers, yet you still see them when you're sick or injured, right? If you don't want help, why do you continue to write here? Within yourself, you do want help, but you aren't willing to admit it. I will leave you alone if that's what you want, but it won't make your problems go away. If you ever want to talk, e-mail me at nightgoddessrem@hotmail.com.

-- Mahi

What Marahani said...yeesh. We are asking about your life. We are trying to help you. And you go around and think that nobody cares??

Peaces.

Mahi thank you so much! your probably the only person on here that i would ever consider talking to, even though we dont know each other your about the only understanding person here! THANK YOU!!!

Hahaha Angelina be proud of yourself ahahaha...

Peaces.

I won't pester her anymore and you guys shouldn't either. If she wants to talk, she'll talk. But obviously, she doesn't want to devulge personal things on a public forum. So if Chelsea wants to talk, she will come find one of us and do so. Until then, leave her alone.

PS -- Ismail, you are a heartless jerk!

Yeah...cos i am tired....i will be a considerate person and....read the dictionary....

Good-bye to this whole damned conversation.

Peaces. //ari\\

well i can tell who is understanding from this "stupid argument"

you are so rude! i bet you dont even stop to think about others feelings before you answer to what people are writting... thats what i call selfish!

Guys, drop it and leave her be. You're just irritating everyone here by all the senseless side-bickering! We're here to be helpful - not act like preschoolers who need a diaper change.

Chelsea: *hugs* I'm out of here. Gie me a buzz if you wanna talk. I can't guarantee I'll respond immediately, cause I'm starting college soon and I'm working 30 plus hours a week. But I promise I'll get back to you when i get your message.

ok ta for your help! buh bi!

woooow.....every single one of u that has posted has loooads of hot air for cutters...holy hell.....
anyways.....yeah.....this became a topic from self harm being selfish to becomming a 1 vs all kinda thing with chelsa.

now chelsa, there are ppl on this site who will listen to you, and try to help you. from what i read, u keep everything bottled up inside. that is a very bad thing to do. from my understanding, u cut to make your problems go away...but they dont really go away now do they? they come back the next day because cutting solves jack sh!t. the onyl reason why ppl here are a little ticked off at you is because there are 100+ threads on how and why ppl cut. i said this before in another post..somewhere...THIS SITE IS FULL OF PPL WHO HAVE PROBLEMS AND ARE EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE. so u are gonna find ppl who are more messed up then you and ur are gonna find those who arnt and maybe some that are equally as messed up as you. there are ppl here that will listen to you, and u started off explain why u self harm. because u find no one to listen to u. but u also contradict urself because u also stated u keep things bottled up. U CANNOT FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL LISTEN IF U KEEP THINGS BOTTLED UP. cause that means ur unwilling to let ppl in and therefore u cannot recieve help.

and dammit all to hell...i lost my train of thought ><

chelsea, there are ppl here that will listen to you if you know where to look, but keep in mind that not everyone here is nice. all the arguements that have been said against self harm are valid. and those that do self harm rarely find ways to back themselves up because there are always better ways...anyways chelsea....just stop the self harm...easier said then done, but its a must if u dont want a toe tag.

thank you forgotten memory. but the reason y i do keep things bottled up inside is because nobody does listen.. and its always been hard for me to talk about my feelings... and that is one thing that i just cant change about myself!

but its hard!

hard or not doesnt matter.....u have to want to solve ur problems thru talking, otherwise ur gonna stay with the self harm. in life theres no such thing as hard or easy, its all will power. u have to have the will to get better

OK I lied I am not done with the conversation peoples....:P

I read the poem and i thought it was....excellent. I'm trying to find another word to explain it...even though i read the dictionary, so that's just sad lmao...

Peaces.

No problem Bob. :)

Peaces.

lol
use the thesauros (sp?)

but i dont know who else to talk to! every one that i have talked to have told me that im being stupid... but they dont know how much im really hurting!

no one will know how much u hurt unless u let it out

ive tried but they dont take me seriously!

ive got to go you can msg me or what ever buh bi!

then heres the site where ppl wil take it seriously or bitch at u cause they tired of hearing about it. like i said, tons of ppl with lots of problems on this site....u gotta just pick someone...and talk to them

Good-bye. Nice erm....chatting on the internet with you lol....

Peaces.

self harming is called self harming becoz u do it to yourSELF not because it is selfish!! one the posts earlier said that people that self harm say to there mates oh im fine and then just cry and moan all day or wateva!! well i don't do tht, if my mates ask me whats wrong i tell them, and then usually it makes me feel better to tell someone, but it doesn't alwayz work when your in places that you don't feel comfortable talking to someone, like if i'm at home cause my dads alwayz out and my mum is the cause of most of my problems so she don't exactly help!! so not everybody does wat that person said!! i never "cry and moan" all day because that would be selfish to make your mates help you and just cry for attention!!!
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

im not trying to argue cause i can't be bothered either, so tht makes 2 of us!!!

Dammit...not again....

I'm out. I'm done with this one.

For now. :P

Peaces.

go icklebaby!!!!! atleast there are some people out there that agree with me and see my point of view!!! its not slefish, it can be slefish but it depends on the circumstances for why you are doing it!!!
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx