You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours

Ok, so maybe I shouldn't post this because to me it just sounds vulgar, but I will anyways because I'm curious to see people's reactions and comments. My sister and I were in the car yesterday and we were talking about what my boyfriend and I do and she said that, it was wrong, ok well not wrong, but unfair for me to do certain things for him, that he doesnt do for me. So what do you think? In a relationship, should things always be "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours"?

No, it shouldn't in my opinion.

You should do something for someone because you love them, not because they "scratched your back".

haha good, you're on my side! And ya know, I don't mind doing it at all... I don't really want him to do anything.

Hmmm, if you like doing the back scratching it doesnt matter if they scratch yours back, but it could be nice..... :p

it could come to your advantage being the leader, lol

*jackie*

Nah I don't believe in the "You scratch my back, I scratch yours." You should only do what your happy with!

i agree with millena if u do that for some1 its bcuz u llove them ur not suppose 2 do it becuz u expect something in return

That's kind of sick...

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*embarrassed

And the whole "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours" isn't a literal thing. Its like if a 50/50 thing. Eg. I give you 2 sweets, you give me sweets back. I think thats what this post is on about..