Lost in this whirlpool of emotions...help!

hey everyone..well here goes...
Me and my bf have been goin out nearly two month but its long distance so we keep in touch via net n ive been down to his for 4days n hes just been upto mine for 5days (thats all the time we've spent together). the thing is last week while he was up wasnt very good, im a bit unsure of his personality seems he was ordering me about all week, altho he did need me to do things cos hes broken his ankle, but i think its how he said things or demands to me.sort of be littling me. another thing is that i know my first love told me he regrets breakin up with me and we both agreed that neither people we are both going out with match up to what we had but i dont think there's much of a chance me and him wud get back together cos we both in rships. the thing im really asking is what do u think i shud do? i cud go down to my bfs in a weeks time and stay at his altho we cant go anywhere or do anything cos he cant drive with leg (so basically stuck in house being slave) or not go down or what? i dont know how i feel about him anymore? last week i was head over heals n now its all just gone like a puff of smoke n i cant stop thinkin about my ex (who ill be seeing next week as we're guna a gig together)....well i guess i just want sum advice on what the hell is goin on with me at the mo thats all..so if anyone knows what its like in my situation or just wants to help out please do!

thanks n take care
xxxLoUxxx

okay well just to let ya know me n my ex broke up like 10months ago but we do see quite a lot of each other cos at same college but we finished college now. we already talked to each other about our current rships and that doesnt bother me at all, i dont know y lol...i duno think im guna try wi my bf and see where it goes cos dont wana end it cos cud av just been shite week and yea suppose cud kinda handle him at his worst but i dont wana be the little women carrying his beer and meals whilst he sits there watchin footy cos that infruriates me! lol i just felt like id been taken advantage of i guess n dont like feeling like that...i just kept thinkin the whole week....hes not alex (ex)...i duno tis well screwed up! thaks for advice!

xxxLoUxxx