Not trying to sound wrong

well i woulnt do that bcuz u never know if they have aids or any std's i wount riskit if i were you

hey
i have to say that i felt the way you did. and even though you think that you dont want them to be special they will be special because they took your V.

been there prefer no one else make the mistake.
Emma

I'm still a virgin but I want my first time to be with someone I love and who cares about me. That way I know he will make sure I feel comfortable and will make me feel better about myself and less nervous. But that's just me :) Good luck with whatever you do, but don;t rush into it.
sarahxxx

im a virgin too! the only way to learn sex is doing do it. porn movies are awful and unreal. its better to learn sex with the person you love then she or he will understand your fear and i agree with sarah that you will feel comfortable and don't have to worry
taj, manc,uk

fiona, you say that you dont want to feel a fool with the person that you love, if u love them then u wont feel like a fool at all. u will feel comfortable and happy about what u are goin to experience with them. i agree ive felt like that in the past, just to get it over and done with, but its not worth it. wait for sumone special who will care about ur feelings, understand your fears and enjoy teaching you the experiences of life. dont rush into anything cos ull only regret it!
take care n all the best in what ever u decide...i just hope u take ppls advice.
xxxLoUxxx

I think you should wait until you actually meet a guy you love. You don't need to be experienced, 'cause if he loves you he should cherish the fact that you've saved your virginity for him.