Help me make the right choice guys...please...

Ok dudes (and girls to if you want) im hoping you could help me with this prob. PLEASE!!! To do so-

Imagine you were a boy (Should not be to hard if you are)
About sixteen/seventeen, people have told you that this girl likes you and I mean REALLY likes you and has for three years. But she aint that special, has never held an actual conversation with you and you have had a girlfriend for six months.

Right now-I need you to tell me how you think you would react to these situations:

1. If the girl who fancied you, made an attempt to start a conversation with you for the first time in three years. Acting only in an airy, off hand way.
OR/AND if
2. If you saw her one day crying, looking completely heartbroken (Ex: would you approach her? Say anything to her? Run like hell?).
OR/AND if
3 She just approached you one day and told you point blank she loved you. (Would you refuse to talk to her after that, try to be friends only? What?).

Anyway if you can post your answers to the three questions as truthfully as pos then thank you from the bottom of my heart. X

Don't use plan 3! I think a guy would run scared.

I would go with 1 just make conversation!

As for plan 2 I wouldn't.

I think your best bet is to just talk to him. That way you start out getting to know each other.

I know I am a girl but I am 35 so I have had some experience on what works and what doesn't! #3 No, No, No!

I hope this will help! Good luck =)

Yeah thats the one Im leaning towards myself but i just wondered what his reactions might be to the others. Anyone else know what they might do?

Anyone? *Echo* Please...

hey there, yeah i think your best and safest bet is to just try to start a conversation with him, and be your sweet little self and flirt a little here and there... but be patient if he doesnt react the way that u want him to the first time, keep trying to talk to him, but dont try so much that you get annoying.. but just talk to him and see what happens! *KISSES*~Corrie

Worth a try I suppose, I just hope I can work up the nerve. Tho im still hopeing he will make that effort first...

if she was crying, give her a shoulder to cry on. she'll think you're sweet and caring. i should know! i'm a girl.

yea just try chattin to him, perhaps arrange a date with a group of friends so ur together but there isnt the pressure of an actually date...just caht and see where it goes...
best of luck
xxxLoUxxx

Thats the thing tho I normaly only see him and school and my close friends dont live nearby so its trouble trying to go anywhere, let alone have him there.