***do u have regrets?

  • Catty
    19 years ago

    well i was wondering...those of you who have had sex...

    do you regret it and think you should have waited?

    did it help or ruine your relationship?

    was it worth it?
    please answer these questions. I'm confuzed and need some answers! people are all telling em one thing but my heart feels something else but my mind disagrees with my heart and i'm just confized.

  • Lovemylove
    19 years ago

    No I wouln't have regretted it for the world, and I never will no matter what.

  • Catty
    19 years ago

    thanx that helps a little!!!! :)

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    still think about it though if you are considering it. she didnt regret it, but you might. just think about it... and use protection!!
    -A

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    i waited for my first time when i was with my first love...it was really good, we both learnt a lot and it made our rship stronger and was definalty worth it.

    listen to ur heart and ur head i know its hard cos they usually contradict but try thinging off al the pros and cons n then decide...ultimalty do what u feel comfortable with and nothing more

    take care
    xxxLoUxxx

  • blackrose1011
    19 years ago

    well considering my first time was on thursday, yeah the fourteenth of July, 2005. I havent realy had time, or wanted to regreat it. But i waited, seventeen years. And Jake and I have been dating for over nine months. We felt like the time was right for us as a couple...we wanted it to be, well, worth it. and Its like I always said, there will only be one. I will only ever have sex with one guy. That guy is him. I think it was worth it...I love him.

    youhave to always be sure its love, not lust. Can you two go to a movie and watch it, not make out the entire time. Or when your alone, do other things, like listen to music, play games, pillow fights...lol. I mean make sure that the physical is second to the emotions. You want to be able to talk to him, not just sleep with him.

    hope i could help. Thats the best I can do...

  • BloodScars
    19 years ago

    umm my whole life is full of regrets...mostly over romance

  • insane authority
    19 years ago

    aww well...im still waiting for true lurrrrrve lol, n that'll be my time to say..... hellooo sexy u got me all horney (hehe)

  • gorgeouslilmissy
    19 years ago

    i havent actually done it, but alot of my friends have and none of them regret it, but i would be absolutely sure before you did anything!
    xx

  • Brazon
    19 years ago

    well my first time was when i was fithteen and i no some people would say thats too young but for me it felt right. i found that it did make my relationship with my boyfriend stronger and i love him still after a year. the best part is, i know that he loves me still, i can see it in his eyes, i know he isnt just using me, and tht is a great feeling. knowing that u have someone to conect with. but do what u think is right dont waste it coz u'll never get it back. mine was perfect, i think everyone's should be. hope i helped. xxx

  • Catty
    19 years ago

    thanx...yall are helpin me out a lot! I appreciate it!!!!!!

  • amber
    19 years ago

    be careful because when i gave my virginity to a boy i went out with for 2 years he dumped me two days later because he said that he just wanted a break and now he will not answer the phone to me. so please be careful

  • Darien
    19 years ago

    a lot of people have regrets. and it's usually a mistake they made, or a decision they didn't make. but no one should regret things for too long. they have to let go sometime. dont carry a burden, it will bring negativity to your life.