low self esteem...(NOT DEPRESSED)

  • None
    19 years ago

    I have a low self esteem when it comes to girls I happen to like...well,this is from all of the girlfriends I have dated who treated me like I was nothing,had no feelings, and was just a loser....well,now I always feel like the girl I happen to like is too good for me,and I hate that in me...I always end up wondering if I am good enough for anyone...

    this is not one of those "I'm sad help me" cases, I just want some advice...

    can anyone tell me what they think would help me overcome my low self esteem problem?

  • Dorotea©
    19 years ago

    I've had that problem too, but then I decided that I'd just forget about the guys for awhile, and then I started feeling better about myself. It helps. Don't date anyone for awhile, even if you're interested in them. Just be yourself...And I'm sure when the right girl comes along, she won't be the kind that makes you feel bad about yourself.

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    19 years ago

    I do agree that when the right girl comes along she won't be the kind to make you feel bad about yourself.
    I have low self esteem too, and I'm with somebody who I think is "out of my league" yet I've still got him :-s I often wonder WHY he is with me, but then I think whats the point in worrying over it? Hes obv with me for a reason so I should just let the negative thoughts go...