I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!PLEASE!!!!

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    hey gal feel free to email me if u can....dont woory im not here to judge u or anything, im here to listen and offer any advise i can..take care
    xxxLoUxxx

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    19 years ago

    Hey, same applies to me. I'll offer the best advice I know of. If you wanna email me then do. My email is goldenangel6@hotmail.com

    xxx

  • Catty
    19 years ago

    ok well i have AIM my s/n is candykisses2289 if you still need help you can IM me. I'll listen and try my hardest to give you advice that can help. MY name is caitlin by the way. Later

  • Lydia O
    19 years ago

    The best and most honest answer I can give you is to find another job or or get transferred or whatever it takes to work elsewhere. This won't be be easy and it will undoubtedly cause you some pain. But if you allow the relationship to continue, then ultimately you are going to endure a whole lot more pain than if you end it now. I have seen so many real life examples of the kind of romances that you are describing. The girl falls for an older guy who has a wife or live-in gf with kids involved. And in the end they just cause a lot of emotional suffering and trauma for everyone involved.

    I think that your mind is already telling you the right thing to do. In this case it is your heart that is leading you into trouble.

  • Lydia O
    19 years ago

    Marriage break-ups are always always messy -- emotionally, financially and otherwise. I would not consider a guy truly available to make another commitment until after about a year past the divorce when things are more settled.

    Sorry you are having to deal with this kind of dilemma. I know it is tough and you need to stay strong. I wish you luck and offer you my best wishes.

  • Ari
    19 years ago

    Well... personally i would say... that if he's cheating on his wife w/ you, and he leaves her for you, how do you know that won't be you in the near future? I would try and find another job... one where there are no men there to distract you. that might be really hard but it might just be the best thing to do. i know it's tough but you have to do whats right even if your heart hurts.
    But if you ever need to email anyone i'm right here.

    erylthelittlelozzer@msn.com

    I'm not here to judge. i'm here to help... i don't like seeing people so sad. The same applies to everyone. If anyone ever needs help, I'm right hhere. :)
    Hope i helped.

    xox

    Ariel