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19 years ago
Hey, same applies to me. I'll offer the best advice I know of. If you wanna email me then do. My email is goldenangel6@hotmail.com |
Lydia O
19 years ago
The best and most honest answer I can give you is to find another job or or get transferred or whatever it takes to work elsewhere. This won't be be easy and it will undoubtedly cause you some pain. But if you allow the relationship to continue, then ultimately you are going to endure a whole lot more pain than if you end it now. I have seen so many real life examples of the kind of romances that you are describing. The girl falls for an older guy who has a wife or live-in gf with kids involved. And in the end they just cause a lot of emotional suffering and trauma for everyone involved. |
Lydia O
19 years ago
Marriage break-ups are always always messy -- emotionally, financially and otherwise. I would not consider a guy truly available to make another commitment until after about a year past the divorce when things are more settled. |
Ari
19 years ago
Well... personally i would say... that if he's cheating on his wife w/ you, and he leaves her for you, how do you know that won't be you in the near future? I would try and find another job... one where there are no men there to distract you. that might be really hard but it might just be the best thing to do. i know it's tough but you have to do whats right even if your heart hurts. |