annoyed, confused I really need help on what to do

  • insane authority
    19 years ago

    i dont know where to start but here it goes...out of all the dam guys i could have chose i chose this messed up one! oh i duno...i regret everything. he said he liked me n i REALLY liked him, so we got together n for 2 weeks it was great! though we definitely rushed it...he took my first kiss...n was sorta my first bf. :( im soo confused...he then told me later that we should get to know eachother first ..n ye i agree but i swear we could do that whilest still having a relationship. THough he wanted to be "just friends" n stop the whole relationship thing, i was soo disappointed n kinda upset. he said he dint wana hurt me as i seemed to be such a lovely girl n that i deserve someone so much better...(bare in mind he does have a lot of family problems)...but i feel so stupid! so ..grr

    however, later he called n said it was a mistake that whatever he said was stupid n now he's asking for me back...i just told him that we'll see how it goes. but to be honest i really dont know...should i stay friends with him?...i know i'll always kinda hate him...or should i get back...but i dont think i do i was kinda hurt. i'm just soo annoyed he did just said all that...n to be honest i dont want anything to do with him...but i cant just ignore him... can i?...oh but i still kinda like him..

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    i think u both kinda rushed into the rship without fully thinking bout what it really entailed...firstly dont ignore him, try and talk to him bout what u both want. he does seem to liek u, perhaps he just got a bit scared first off n needed to sort his mind out?
    talk to him cos im sure he never meant to hurt u he will ahve just been confused. dont be angry at him cos we all make mistakes and if hes willin to say sorry then u shud be okay about it.
    just follow ur heart and if u like him give hima second chance, but lay down sum ground rules. email me if u wana chat
    xxxLoUxxx

  • insane authority
    19 years ago

    yer we both agreed that we rushed...thanks for all the advice :), n yer.. i wont let him mess me around i'll make sure of that .
    he his nice..thing is he prefers a sexual relationship, since thats wat he had with his ex gf (7months ago)...but he said he doesnt really mind..n im not going there. He's been asking me back 3 times now. hmm i still like him but giving it another go...i've thought bouts it, n he isnt my type..but i fancy him damit! ...n i duno ..ok i wont ignore him...maybe just a friendship...beside theres so many other guys out there right? lol
    o yer besides this whole thing with him would be a sort of a puppy love relationship ..that'll just be wasting my time wouldnt it?:S

    thanks for all the advice though. im gona keep it all in.