BIG age gap...

  • Ashley Daniels
    19 years ago

    OKay im 15 and my brother is 12 and he is on a Allstar team that travels everywhere and i went with them last week and i met this really sweet, and nice guy and he asked me out...only problem is he's 12! I mean i really like him, i havn't answered him yet, but do you think its wrong...?

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    ............

    I wouldn't do it because he could try taking advantage of me in some way....but hey, that's just me.

    Do what you want. Just hope it's the right decision. :)

    Peaces.

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    Okay i am stupid, i thought that she was 12 and he was 15! GOSH i CAN'T comprehend! And it took me how long??

    Peaces.

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    you'll just have to think that if you decide you dont like this guy will he become clingy after that? and if you do like him after that, will you feel comfortable telling your friends that you're with this guy? you not being able to tell your friends will hurt him too. so the best bet is probably not yo but hey go with your instincts. usually works.
    -A

  • /: Stray--X--Wolf :\
    19 years ago

    I heard somewhere that love goes over all borders and obstacles, but seeing that I was never in love that doesn't help. Just stay with your emotions, and do whatever the wind blows to you...

    /: Shadow--Stalker :\

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Not not big of an age gap....but me personally, perfer older guys, much more mature.

    ( )_( )
    (='.'=)
    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    you're 13 Kori. You can judge others once you've lived your life long enough to. But by then you will hopefully have matured enough not to do so.
    -A

  • *< Deadly Angel >*
    19 years ago

    no i dont think its wrong.. but if ur looking for more of a serious relationship then i wouldnt.. i mean hes 12 he might not know everything that you know .. but its ur desicion...
    **_**MARCI

  • erikka baby
    19 years ago

    Melena, you need to grow up.

    Like I said before, age has nothing to do with love, if you like the person than go for it, although it is a bit young, but who am I to judge ღ

    Kori and Azreal - Ignore that Melena chick, seems to me she's just immature.

    Tootles,
    Erikka ღ

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    whoa pretty big discussion going on. personally i have to say that that 15 and 12 is a pretty big gap. girls who go out with older guys yes, girls who go out with younger guys kinda wierd. i mean im 15 and im going to 10th and so ashley is prolly going to 10th as well. when i was 12 i was in 7th so i mean would u be able to tell ur friends that ur going out with a 7th or 8th grader? if ud feel comfortable with that then u should go for it, if not seriously consider an older guy. maybe a yr or months but not 3 thats just too wierd.

  • BrokenMisery
    19 years ago

    First of all- kori melena and whoever- you are all acting like children fighting over candy- just get over it- she has the opinions and you have no right to call her names- she is allowed to feel how she wants- even if it is different

  • BrokenMisery
    19 years ago

    and considering the age between u two kori and brandon- its almost the same thing- and whether u brandon are older than me- you certainly aren't acting it- just leave her alone- she shouldn't have to put up with insecure ******** being mean to her.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    If you have to ask....then you shouldn't. Be friends with him and see where that takes you. As far as the age gap I would say it depends on the two of you as everyone esle said. I would never personally date someone younger than me just because of the maturity level but to each his own.

  • Tainted Beauty
    19 years ago

    12 and 15's not that bad...i went out with a guy who was 15 and i was 12