Is all love so painful?

A lot of people say I am cute and everything but I can't seem to keep a boyfriend. They all wanted to get in my pants and when I say no, theydump me. I am now in love with this guy, I think he is different, but everyone sais he is no good. What do I do?

no idea.. who cares what people think cuz what do they know? nothing. if you really like him, keep him. maybe after awhile then u'll realize his flaws (or why everyone hates him) but if you don't see anything bad in him.. go for him!! good luck!

Don't let anyone push you into doing something you don't want to. No matter how much you love them. Don't listen to other people judge him by yourself. People tell lies. Just be careful as some maybe true! Good Luck! I hope everything works out for you :)

I know your story very well. It's the same as mine. People say I am cute, and I too have trouble keeping a boyfriend (for the same reason). I fell in love with a guy that no one liked. I didn't listen to anything they said and tried to judge him for myself, but I judged him with a lovers eye and didn't see what they saw. I found out the hard way that he wasn't a good person and it hurt me so bad. Be careful. People usually have a good reason for not liking someone. Before you get too involved with this guy, find out why these people don't like him. Maybe they are only jealous of him, but maybe they do have a good reason.

~*~ not all love is painfull!** i mean it might seem that way but when u find the one u wanna be with forever its all good!** and well like taylor said dunt go over 18

Hey, I would find out why people don't like this guy then consider their reasons. But if they're lame reasons then just ignore them. I get stick about being with my boyfriend but he is a good person and so I just ignore all the comments.
I think love is painful, but its such a good feeling being in love, that all the good times weigh out the bad. Thats what I think anyways...xxx you gotta decide if this guy is worth this pain or not.

If love hurts, then you're doing it wrong.

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i dont know, i would say yes.. no love is perfect and as two people get closer they begin to get more open with each other and generally say what they think, people you love and are closer to can hurt you alot easier than someone you are not very close to as their opinion means so much more to yuou

That is very true!!