So confused ..

OK so I'm totally in love with this boy, I have been for about 7 years but we're really not happening again (complications)
Now here comes the difficult part - I have started to have feelings for one of my best friends boyfriends, who she messes around. He also has feelings for me. I feel really guilty because I've managed to slipt them up totally accidently, and now I think there's a chance we may get closer.

I'm really confused because I love this other boy, but if he's not giving me the time of day, maybe I should take a chance with my friends to be ex :S

Any advice?

u jst gotta follow ur heart bt do fink of ur mate they may have split up but that doesnt mean she doesnt still like him!

Be careful about your best friend. She may get very upset about it all. I think you should talk to her before anything happens.

It's best not to lose your friends over any guy. None of them are worth it. Boyfriends come and go...friends are consistant. I have a feeling that your friend would be really hurt if you dated her ex. Talk to her. Tell her that you have feelings for him and see what she says. Just don't risk losing her friendship over a guy.

Hmm ... I know I should talk to her about it but, well maybe this is also part of some kind of revenge. She's treated me like .. well like sh*t basically, I've been called fat by her before and things like that. I saw him as a friend up until recently and I'm so confused!!!

Oh yeah, and she's hardly my best friend, but I'm hers, if that makes sense.

I wanted to start dating one of my best friend's ex's before too, but what i did was make sure that i asked him if he would be pissed off about it if i did... so maybe try doing that