sexual abuse

hi has anyone been sexually abused?
and how have u dealt with it?
please answer i need help
xxx

its happend to me off and on all through my life by diffrent people doing diffrent things. it happens. my problem was i shut it up inside..but finally i started confronting the pple that did it to me..well the ones that i knew. it's also how i found this site..i started writing and i started taking military training for self defense as a way to get my anger out. now im happier than i've ever been because im more confident with myself. i still have nightmares...but not as much. so my advice is find little things that cheer u up..when ur ready to confront who hurt you, ull know. but the best thing u can do is find help if u havent...stick to the things u love..and know that it wasn't ur fault and hurting urself or anyone else is not the answer! trust me! it will get better sweetie! i promise..just look on the brightside like i did!

i have told pple, im takin counsellin for it now coz im a bit messed up, but i cut myself, and i no it hurts others but i cnt stop, ya no? my self worth isnt very high at the moment and it gets hard, i need a substitute for cuttin but i cnt seem to find one xxx

start taking fighting classes..i had the same problem. the pain of getting thrown on ur ass will help..u'll come out with bruises and cuts and u'll feel a little better on that part because it won't be by u. and the figthing will help u learn to defend urself and u'll be more confident with urself. it happend to me for years..and its still happing by random ppl occasionly but the point is..the last guy that tried got his nose broken and i knew that i was gonna be okay. so just take fighting classes..they help a hell of alot! writting does to!

yeh i mite thnx for the advice it is a gud idea, it gets hard trustin pple too but thts expected x

yeh i know what u mean..ppl that have been through the stuff we have...guys and girls alike need to stick together! keep ur head up..it'll get better! email me if u still need to talk..im here anytimne!

fnku, yeh we do need to stik together, how old are you?

15

me to
kool
wat happend to u then?

alot of things
why don't u tell me what happend to u..but email me..cuz its not something that should be spread all around this site...i really don't like to say it aloud alot...

ok den how du recieve em? lol me u to all of this

lol..sorry i had to leave....umm...click on my name and go to my profile..there will be a way to contact me. go ahead...it wont bite promise!

Hey,
I have been sexually abused just this past year....by my boyfriend. I actually was in denial for a while but when i faced the facts.... i was just shocked....and now im like depressed and i hardly go out....i pop pills...i am just a mess! but yea....hope this helped...!

-kayla-

heya
yeh i was in denial for ages too, i cudnt believe my step father wud do tht to me, im a mess too and it gets real hard sumtyms, xxxxxx