advice plz...

okay, i have a question for people. what do you do if your committed to someone and you've been going out with them for 5 months and you really love them but you miss being single?? like at times when i'm not with my boyfriend and i'm with my other friends i wish i could just be single so that i can do what i want and not have to think about his feelings or do anything that would upset him. but when i'm with him i enjoy his company and being with him. so if anyone has any advice for me....plz give it me, it would help.

It doesn't sound like you truly love him if you enjoy being away from him. But it also alright to want to be alone sometimes, as teenagers we want to have our free time more than anyone, so it is deemed correct to want to be alone at times. And what exactly do you want to do that you can only do when your single?

You're 15 years old you have a lot of life to live. From what you just wrote I don't think you are in love. Don't stay with someone because you feel an obligation. You might enjoy his company but at your convenience. Enjoy your life to the fullest you're only young once! Be happy! =) If you stay with someone for the wrong reasons you will look back and realize you wasted your better years. Trust me I wasted 9 years and I can't ever have those years back.

I guess it just means that you aren't ready for the commitment of a relationship. My friend said he loved being single so he could hang all over any girl he wanted and not make his girlfriend angry. That's just weird. Apparantly you don't love him, and you aren't ready to have a relationship with him, but maybe I am wrong. I know what it's like to be single...i've been single for a long time...I kind of enjoy it, but when I have a boyfriend I don't think about it. 15 is young to have a boyfriend. I know I am only a year older than you, and I haven't found a good boyfriend either...I konw I am still young to have one too. Dating is just getting to know different personalities until you are ready to settle down with the one. If you are attached to this guy, than by all means stay with him. But if you only want to be single so you can be around other guys, I think you should talk to your bf, and tell him how you are feeling. Tell him you don't want to make him angry. If you are like me and have many guy friends, you bf probably gets jealous. You shouldn't ever have to give up your friends for a guy...they aren't worth it. I didn't mean to write so much! Anyway, good luck with everything! ~

i understand completely, i have been with my boyfriend since i was 15( abut a yr and a half now) and it is natural to miss having your own space and that its all part of growing up, but if you truly like him.. keep him