Do you ever do this???

you should not care if they get mad or not...If you honestly want to knwo if they still have feelings for you, then ask honestly....don't go "oh ha ha ha...just kidding"....ask him and mean it.then yo will get your answer.if he does still like you, then he will not be mad.

gals do it cos they want reassurance but dont want to seem clingy or needy or whatever. course us gals dont like our guys hanging around with people we dont like but dont think its our place to say who he can and cant hang around with even tho we might not like it. im sure he feels the same way when u hang around with certain guys. its just love and reasurance ur after n every gal does it from time to time and kinda makes a light of the question we're asking so he doesnt feel threatend or put on the spot. its an okay thing to do so dont worry about it...as long as hes happy with u then dont worry who hes hanging about with cos at the end of the night hell be coming back to you.
xxxLoUxxx

Yep i've done that many times. Like he asked my best friend out, and she asked me if it was ok. I wanted to scream "No it's not ok, you know how much i like him!" but instead all I said was "Yeah, that's fine" And when she dumped him, I forgave him because I love him. But yeah, I do it all the time. It keeps things quiet and keeps everyone else happy.

to be honest no i havnt done that, if i had a problem with someone i would have to say something! lol