uggg its driving me crazy(plz help)

my ex and I are really great friends, im happy for that and thankful, but i still really care about him, and the thing is i know he does to..he told me that since he's been stying up in NY he has liked me again and when he asked me if i did at anytime i told him yes, so i did tell him how i felt, but yet he hasnt done anything about it, idk maybe he'll do something about it when he gets back this week, its just i told my friend that he told me that he said he had liked me at ssome point while he was up in NY and she said " well im sure he doesnt like you now, get over it he's not worth your time" and i know that any guy should never be worth my time....the thing is, is i think i might be in love with him...i wasnt when we were going out, but now that we know eachohter alot better i think i am, idk maybe its infatuation(sP?0, ok but the proble mis, is i dont know how he feels about me ( meaning i dont know if he still likes me) like the other day he told me i was like half of his life and when i asked him who the other half was he said himself, so idk help if you can :)

ps: sorry if some parts didnt make sense, that sometimes happenes when i type lol

ok first, why did you two break up in the first place? because those reasons dont just go away, you either need to work on them, or leave the situation how it is...you can't pretend they dont exist.

i say stop talkin to your friends about it...they're not feeling what you're feeling and they're being negative about it...and don't say that he's not "worth your time" b/c friends are DEFINITELY worth your time...you can't just assume that no guy is worth your time. f you go into situations assuming that you're damned as far as relationships go. only you can know if you really love him, but by what you say, it sounds like you like him as a boyfriend, but really love him as a friend and you love being around him/talking to him. maybe its just not the romantic love.

my advice would be to talk to him privately and ask him how he feels now (if you two are such good friends this talk shouldnt be a problem) and if he wants to take the relationshp further. ask him what he meant by saying that you were half his life.

sorry if i was a bit harsh...i hope i helped...take care and good luck!! :)

Sara

p.s. i was in this same situation so i know exactly how you feel...and for me, we ended up getting back together and we're still goin strong...